I feel like im gonna puke.

[Rainbowmum]

Okay people, lets give this poor 70 year old woman her dignity back.

Enough!!!

[Nick9]

You know... how would the world look like, if everyone who didn't like something that offended others, would just walk away?

I think that the thread is still live because people don't like the idea that a nurse or a doctor who could take care of their loved ones or of them, could also go to some discussion board and tell the world how disgusted he felt while treating them.

It's immature and not professional and what bothers people probably the most is the fact that Rumble thinks it is all right and he has full right to do it.

Well yeah. But how good and empathic nurse it makes him be?

[Rumble88]

This was never about 70 years old woman's dignity, this was never about facts. I never said ''you are wrong'' or something like that. But, okay. Its funny; everybody in here wants a future full of rainbows and such, yet ones opinion makes the other furious. Change starts at the person, the center. And i guess we saw a little about how able we are to the change. You know those bullies which makes our lives really hard for us? I have no doubt that under right circumstances everybody in here can turn into one.

[megumidesu]

This was never about 70 years old woman's dignity

of course it is
a real woman who needed your help is now the subject of a thread titled "i feel like i'm gonna puke"

how is her dignity not an important part of why it was wrong of you to say anything.

[EvenOlderButWiser]

I hear what some people are saying, but give him some slack guys he's 16, not some 25 year old qualified doctor......

ObW
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My original reply still stands.

Yes, we are all entitled to our opinion, and those that have posted negative comments, and positive, are free to do so. Posts aren't moderated.

The OP has already apologies to anyone that he's offended, but don't forget he's 16 years old and was just expressing his reaction to something he hadn't encountered before.

Move along folks, nothing to see....

ObW
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[Rumble88]

meg; next time you go to the hospital tell them about your dignity. And your way of thinking about not showing something private. If someone needs my help, then i help, i didn't refused her. Stop questioning the way i helped her. I wrote how i feel about IT not HER. Stop saying the same thing over and over again about it. You can assume if im doing my job well or if i'm a good person, but you are insisting about it. Oh you know what? to every women out there; i can't stand vaginas and i dont think they are beautifull and i can even say they are gross TO ME. This is what this thread about, STOP ACCUSİNG ME WİTH SOMETHİNG ELSE

[megumidesu]

i posted a looooong post explaining why i think the way i do about this situation . if you haven't read it , that's not my fault .

[Roxy]

meg; next time you go to the hospital tell them about your dignity. And your way of thinking about not showing something private. If someone needs my help, then i help, i didn't refused her. Stop questioning the way i helped her. I wrote how i feel about IT not HER. Stop saying the same thing over and over again about it. You can assume if im doing my job well or if i'm a good person, but you are insisting about it. Oh you know what? to every women out there; i can't stand vaginas and i dont think they are beautifull and i can even say they are gross TO ME. This is what this thread about, STOP ACCUSİNG ME WİTH SOMETHİNG ELSE

Rumble, please don't say nasty things like that. It's not necessary and it IS hurtful. I think it's time to STOP IT. Like Rainbowmum said ENOUGH. No-one is trying to hurt you and if we have then we are sorry.

It's fine that you have your opinion on the female body. Okay, we understand that you and many others don't find it attractive. It's just that there are ways of saying things.

Remember Rumble, this is GAYSPEAK. For Gay men AND Gay women. It isn't GAYMANSPEAK. Women have just as much right to be here as us guys do. So we should think about what we say, they will read this and they have every right to be upset. This is their body that we are talking about, how awful must it make them feel to be told that their body is gross?

Yes, you might think it's petty. But it doesn;t matter. If it hurts someone, if it makes them feel bad, then we shouldn't say it. Please don't be upset or angry. We DO understand that you feel this way. But please please please think about other people too okay?

Lets just let it go alright?

[Rumble88]

I said IT so many times, i wonder if you can see the word? What you think is something, what you accuse someone for is something. Every time i post an answer, you say the same things. If you're not even gonna answer properly..

[Rumble88]

About my patient; ''i posted a looooong post explaining why i think the way i do about this situation . if you haven't read it , that's not my fault . ''.
About my opinion; i said what i think, you said what you think.. so? what now? oh i get it; hating vaginas (i guess we can say being gay) is reeaally bad:/