It's been a while!!! Update on me!!!

[Chuck92]

Hey Guys and Gals,
Chuck here, Guess the last time i posted i was going through my breakup and was going through a really tough time and i really wanted to say thank you for all of your advice!!!

Well, Since then i've taken myself out of the dating scene but then again i kinda found someone... His name is Chad... He's really sweet and honest with me! Thats what i need.. Well we've been seeing each other for the last few weeks, taking things slow, technically we're not even an item but when we're together it all feels so right and we can actually talk and laugh about the stupid things in life...

He Understands my situation and how my kids come first.... But other than that.... things seem to be really turning around for me.... Im thankful for that!!! Don't know if i could have gone any longer with the pain in my heart!!!

There is a new person building in me and ive seen a different view of my life... I might be married but i'm gay for sure.... Love the wife... will always love her but its not the same as it was before.... But those precedings will come in time.... i want to do the right thing for my kids but i dont want unhappiness in my family!

[Counselor]

Congratulations on your self-discovery, and major kudos to your priorities, Badd!

[Spades]

Congrats on the personal growth and for finding someone who understands you and make you laugh. Good luck with the future, may you continue to grow

[stpdo2]

Hi Badd,

I'm glad you've found someone you can talk to and who helps you understand yourself more even. I'm also glad to hear your life is turning around for you. Kids are happiest when their parents are happy! Best wishes as you navigate through this new chapter in your life, and it's nice to see more gay fathers here on these forums.

[Geminize]

Badd, I missed your update a couple days ago. I'm glad you met someone you can share with. Do the right thing for your kids. Be as loving and respectful as you can with your wife. But you know all that.

[zeon]

Hello badd,
I am really pleased you found someone as like everyone under the moon and the sun there lies two people who one day will meet plant a seed and call it love. As you go through your relationship keep that seed alive by being open and honest and faithful in any situation. Im not saying you arent already on this note i just want to share some experiences as im also in a new relationship and its good to share advice. I am glad your kids come first and i hope your boyfriend understands and accepts that because my child would come first to me over any man however as i found with my ex who was a dad kids can try to play one off against the other so in your heart keep your kids first however be mindful to your children your partner is also part of your life as you got two books to balance on one hand placed side up and side down.
With my ex as advice for ya when a child doesnt get what he wants he then goes to step daddy to ask him and step daddy wanting to please the child and understand he is his daddies little boy gets what he wants and as communication wasnt installed dad and partner have an argument whilst little child gets what they want.

Welkl good luck and dont be a stranger to this site..

Hugs and best wishes to you both

Rome wasnt built in a day and there is no I in team..

Kibndest regards

Aunty Zeon xx