Hello curious NY

[Iamcurious]

Hello, new to this sort of thing. I am married 34 and curious. When I look at porn on the web I find myself drawn to watching the cocks cum and get sucked. Transgender turns me on very much. I want to touch play and suck a cock. I don't want kissing or sex. I am just curious to play with a cock

[megumidesu]

does your wife know about these feelings you're having ? is she okay with the idea of you going off and experimenting with your sexuality ?

if the answer is no to those things , then either end your relationship with her or don't do anything . it's extremely disrespectful to be in a relationship with someone and go behind their back just because you're curious about doing something with someone else ~

either way , i think you should speak to your wife about this . honesty is key in any relationship ~

[Rainbowmum]

Well hi and welcome.

The first thing I would do is ask for some time out of you marriage.
Talk to your wife about it and above all ,please practice safe sex.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Counselor has my saying currently.... It's something about two cocks touching isn't gay, its just sex..

Meh. I assume you have your own cock to play with... Enjoy that. Seriously there is a lot more than just dick-play to being gay or bi, there is intimacy, attachment, love and lots of other stuff.

Your just a straight guy who is likely bored with sex, turned to porn and got all caught up with the money-shots.

[Undreamt]

I dissagree with that sentiment, have fun, enjoy and experiment to find what you like and what you don't.

Nobody should care if your not straight as long as your happy.

That being said, you shouldn't cheat on your wife, I would talk to her first, better to deal with things befor they become an issue.

[Counselor]

Please do discuss this with your significant other before acting on it, and if it's okay with her, make sure your hook-up (I won't call a cock-play date a fling) understands what you want. It won't be okay to play with some poor guy's feelings if all you want to do is touch him in one spot.

Mostly I'm posting to show off my signature.

[Sport77]

Welcome to the forum. There are lots of good people here for you to talk to.

Above all, be honest to yourself and your wife.

Counselor- Your signature is absolutely fantastic!:biggrin: