Confused, horny for gay sex

[Mike0]

Maybe you just find that exciting because it's something completely new. I know a guy who wanted to "try it and explore a whole new world" or something like that. Also I think that you have to determine if it's something real or if it just a fantasy, by definition fantasies are not real so maybe it's just something that arouse you when you think about it but it's nothing more than that ?

[TomStatic]

Yeah your best bet is to experiment, preferably with someone you feel comfortable doing stuff with , know the person abit beforehand

[Rainbowmum]

Perhaps you are bi , if you are not in a relationship experiment with your sexuality.

[Chase]

Part of having a balanced ego is to not be so id ridden, that is, be in control of your urges. All of us men have to battle our sex drive, it's nature. Try dating, maybe? Not much help I know.

[Counselor]

Sooo Horny for it.. I am lost.

Obviously. Please Read the Rules.

[skijor]

Wow!! Have to totally agree with Pellaz, Latebloomer, and Geminize. Take it from someone who came out of the closet and then was socially forced back in. I just recently realized that I was living a lie. And the lie was too myself more that anyone else. I'm not advocating making a total split from the straight world. You might be Bi. Many straight men are just gay-curious. I was sexually active by the age of 10 with boys in the neighborhood. And I was the only one that ended up gay. Go figure. Take it a day at a time and you'll be on the right track.
May I make a weird suggestion? Since you've done phone sex...have you thought about virtual sex? I belong to Second Life and have sex there from time to time. Sounds strange but it is similar to phone sex except you are visually involved. That might resolve some uncertainty.

[Nick9]

What is "normal" is a broad range of sexual preferences, urges, and behaviors. None of us fit into a neat, narrowly defined picture of "normal". It is normal to question your sexuality at different times in your life. It is normal for your preferences to change over time. It is normal to be curious.

Nicely said

[BGuy80]

You're in the same boat as me. RIght now I am just trying to experiment as much as I can. We only live once. Even if you keep ur experimentation a secret; just make sure you like it or not. If you don't like it then ur urges will go away. Also, is it possible you are addicted to porn? Apparently porn addiction causes urges for new and different things

[TimeSage]

Wow!! Have to totally agree with Pellaz, Latebloomer, and Geminize. Take it from someone who came out of the closet and then was socially forced back in. I just recently realized that I was living a lie. And the lie was too myself more that anyone else. I'm not advocating making a total split from the straight world. You might be Bi. Many straight men are just gay-curious. I was sexually active by the age of 10 with boys in the neighborhood. And I was the only one that ended up gay. Go figure. Take it a day at a time and you'll be on the right track.
May I make a weird suggestion? Since you've done phone sex...have you thought about virtual sex? I belong to Second Life and have sex there from time to time. Sounds strange but it is similar to phone sex except you are visually involved. That might resolve some uncertainty.

Second Life is indeed a good way to test the waters with real people (And not ones that you're paying money to have talk to like some phone sex places) and build some real relationships with people. I've used it before (and it was actually how my last boyfriend and I met) for both sex stuff and non sex stuff. I'd gladly show you (IE the OP) some of the gay hotpots once I get a working computer that can run it. Also, I just flat out reccomend SL, as there's so much you can do there (If you're particually savey building or doing art, or djing, etc (Or just feel like whoring yourself out enough by dancing clubs, or even just flat out whoreing....), you can earn enough Lindin Dollars to trade in for real cash and make some money on the side.

(On a side note, skijor, any chance I could get your user name? I can never have enough people on my freinds list...)

[Fearful7980]

for me, I think I'm looking for that great male to male good time and fun of my boyhood years, and the freedom of sexual expression that can only be found in true affection, respect, understanding and love between a male to male relationship that I now miss very much. And I think; with or without it being a sexual one.

I also feel that I have a good chance of finding such with one who is gay, because we both have come to see the real beauty of each part of our body, heart and soul, mind and spirit.

BG

BG