Hey guys, haven't posted anything in a while. I am now in a relationship with someone, and I want to go see him, but several things block that...my mom knows we are dating and is okay with it, but his mom doesn't even know he is gay. I want to go visit this weekend cuz he is in a play, but if I stay, then I would have to get a hotel room, which I have no money for, and I want to ask my parents if they can help pay for it...this is really troubling, please someone help.
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How old are you both? I would look around online for hotel rates then provide that info not your parents... online rates are usually lower. There are several deal websites you can use
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I am 18 and he is 16...what websites do you recommend?
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Hi CuddlyBear,
Can't you just stay with him as a friend without his mom knowing you're gay?
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I wish it were that simple...but I am pretty sure his mom would flip just having a guy over there...
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Thanks for your help...I really appreciate it
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Have you asked your parents to lend you money for a hotel room.
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Not yet...I have to make sure I can even go first before I ask for money. The cheap hotel I found close to him is 50 a night, which isn't that much.
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How far are you from his?
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Want to meet him for the first time in person
I wish I could help but I'm not in the USA 
