Boyfriend coming home from deployment

[Beau]

I recommend blow jobs. Lots of blow jobs. It releases a ton of stress and really helps me unwind.

[jimcrackcorn]

Navy ships are always noisy, even in their sleeping quarters. I used to have a hard time adjusting to the silence of my bedroom when I got back home, putting a clock that makes a tic-tok noise in the bedroom will make it easier for him to sleep. A small fan will also do the trick.

If possible, be at the pier when his ship pulls in. He will appreciate seeing his partner on the pier waiting for him. If the two of you have a doggie, bring the dog along too.

I'm sure there are lots of things that he has anticipated doing once he gets home, so just ask him what he wants to do and let him decide. Sex, food, & alcohol are usually on top of the list (smile).

Oh,,,, another thing,,, he hasn't driven a car in at least 6 months, and it will take him time to get used to being in the drivers seat again. So, it might be a good idea for you to drive him home if the traffic is heavy on the day he arrives.

The most "special" thing you can do for him on the day he arrives is: Give him a warm, loving hug/kiss and tell him you've missed him and love him

Best of Wishes from a retired Sailor.

[BatsTDK]

Thanks guys. Again all great advice. I guess I'll just have to play it by ear. But he definitely said sex was high on the to-do list hehe.

[James]

Love him, he maybe a little differant but care for him, show him that you still care and be an active ear for him to unload on if he needs the help. I know that's all I was looking for when I came back, E8 Special Forces, Nam, Jim

[Sylph]

I would most likely jump that man's bones and plant him a good one! And then depending on how he feels, I'd take him to the beach, we roll up our pant-legs and take a slow walk, hand in hand along the shoreline and find a good spot to sit and watch the clouds and listen to the waves ebb and flow, while I rested against him or him against me(whichever comforts him/you) and just say nothing.

And after a few minutes, just hug him and show him how much I've missed him (not sexually, unless he wants it...which he probably would...oh wait, I don't have a bf, this is hypothetical...anyway ) and if he's ready to open up, then I'll listen. I'll listen and take away whatever pain he may have mentally and unburden his mind and soul and we'll then go home and sit on the couch and watch Animal Planet or Golden Girls(okay, the last one would be my idea lol) and just relax.

Maybe read a book and listen to some good ol' Bach or Beethoven.

And then when it's time for bed, we'll just cuddle, as to get reaquainted with one another and then fall asleep. And when we wake up, we'll wake up as if the world hadn't stopped or faltered while he was away, even if it may have, because he wouldn't want to come back to a whole new life, if he fell in love with his old one...with me <3 , but would rather move forward with me and not play catchup.

And that'd be what I'd do or try to do. As over romanticized as that may seem . I'm a hopeless romantic, what can I say

[BatsTDK]

Wow queen that sounds amazing! You've got quite a vivid imagination

[dvdbwn]

i'd take it slow on the sex. at least let him take the lead. i don't know how strenuous his deployment was but when my partner came back he was physically and mentally exhausted. so sex wasn't on the "to do" list until he had some sleep. this kind of hurt my feelings because i expected him to be ravenous, and he was, but he was too tired to act on it the first night. which leads me to my next piece of advice... don't have any expectations for him. i know you want to plan a romantic reunion, which is sweet and will probably be great. but he may not be up for a whole lot so don't feel disappointed if that's the case.

other than that i bet it will be great and fun. good luck!

[Sylph]

Wow queen that sounds amazing! You've got quite a vivid imagination

Well, you know gurl ;-) . lol

When you read all the sappy books I do and have some free time, then this is what happens <3