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I'm a : Single Gay Man
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sex is overrated...then again, im not saying im a promiscuous man-whore. it's just that, at this point in my life, until we have a romantic connection, i.e. intimacy, we aint getting into some monkey business.
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I never saved myself or anything but I was a lot less bothered by virginity than the people around me and I didn't set out to lose it like so many other guys did. Just happened.
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I did... for a time... but then my friends said something. they said 'You're too much of a slut to keep that promise.' I laughed and agreed. I'm sexually verbal not sexually active!
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I feel some-what like a virgin when it comes to being a bottom, but also want to save this way of sexual fun or desire with one that I feel will not put a label on me.
The very idea of saving one self for the first sexual experience do not turn out that way; as I seem to have been into gay sex before it was called that; but like me and my friend just playing around with that feeling of same sex attraction; to put in a few words.
Thanks for the question, it has great meaning for me, with good food for thought.
BG
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Some-how I find it hard just to say one us good and the other is bad without some idea of how and why I feel both in my heart and mind, as like with passion and reason at war with each other.
Reading more than a few posts, I see the desire for love, after or even before lust is or will become the problem; Do that mean sex is more about the feeling of lust, than love?
that is to say; I like the feeling me and my school buddy was giving each other, and I guess you can say I also loved him for playing that part in my life; but now as an adult can I say such feelings was more a matter of lust; so that now we can not act on them as we did then?
How would you explain this dilemma between love and lust?
Is it all a matter of age?
BG
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Some-how I find it hard just to say one is good and the other is bad without some idea of how and why I feel both in my heart and mind, as like with passion and reason at war with each other.
Reading more than a few posts, I see the desire for love, after or even before lust is or will become the problem; Do that mean sex is more about the feeling of lust, than love?
that is to say; I like the feeling me and my school buddy was giving each other, and I guess you can say I also loved him for playing that part in my life; but now as an adult can I say such feelings was more a natter of lust; so that now we can not act on them as we did then?
How would you explain this dilemma between love and lust?
Is it all a matter of age?
B
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