At what age did you know you were gay?

[Genersis]

Since I was 10 sexual urges wise, 16 for the romantic urges.

[artyboy]

I think I was 7 or 8, there was this boy at my school who I had a crush on. I even give him a present lol.

Then a year later at another school I went to, I got told off for kissing other boys lol!

This may sound strange but I was 15 the first time I ever heard of the word gay, well the first time I understood the meaning of the word, but I was took it by this other lad I was messing about with at the time. I feel really sad how I treated him now though. As he ask me if he got have sex with me and I told him to p^%& off.

Wish I could find him again and say sorry for the what I was like to him. I still have a place for him in my heart.

[archubbycub]

I was about 13 or 14 when I first noticed I found guys cuter than girls. Of course growing up in the Southern part of the US, and being raised Southern Baptist, I was taught that was a sin and I was going to "burn in Hell" if I was gay. So I did everything I could to repress it. Sometimes, looking back on it now, I regret that I didn't at least just keep it to myself and wait until I was out from underneath my parents roof instead of trying to make it go away.

[supersissy]

I too knew I was gay before I knew what gay way. I was always attracted to men since at least 5 years old, never to women. I would sneak into my mom's closet to put on her clothes; played with dolls and liked cooking and taking care of flowers. Hated sports. I saw my first man part at 6 and loved it.

[Rosie]

When I was a young child I remember kissing other little girls, this was around five or six. I never recall kissing little boys. I didn't actually realize that I was a lesbian until around 14 or 15, mostly because I had never thought about it at all. I think that this is in large part because there was no stigma attached to homosexuality in my family, it wasn't something that we really talked about because we didn't really know any gay people but when something with gay couples was in the media everything that I heard was always positive. I'm not sure if that makes sense, but I didn't consider that I may have been gay because it was such a non-issue. I did meet my (still to this day) best friend at 15, he is extremely flamboyant and there was no way that he could have hid his sexuality. I think that our friendship opened my eyes to some of the feelings that I had always had and explained a lot of my behaviors leading up until that point. Oddly enough every one of my close friends from high school has turned out to be gay, we were drawn together without even being aware of our sexual orientations!

[AlfredM]

My first kiss was with a girl,and it was before I was even 5 (I think I was 4). When I was 6 in the kindergarten,I kinda dated 2 girls (strictly kid date,LOL). It was around that time where I met this cute 5 y.o. boy and had my eyes on him,especially after the incident where he suddenly ran out of toilet pantless (not sure why) and all of the kids chased after him (to embarrass him).

Then I entered primary school,and still had my eyes on boys and some girls. We learnt about homosexuality around that time if I'm not mistaken,but I had always deny me being gay cause I still like girls and I was just looking around at boys who were cute (LOL,the irony).

After that,I entered secondary school,and I met my first crush that probably triggered my puberty in gay-direction. He was cute,as all my crush,but there was something else. He wore very tight pants,and most probably didn't wear any under wear! So,every time he sat,his bulge was kind of being advertised very vividly,and I remember that I had always stared it whenever I got the chance. By then I probably considered myself as somewhat gay,but again,I still had crush on girls. But then I had my wet dreams on boys,and only watched gay porn,but I was still in denial. It was later when I was 16 that I came across the term bisexual,and since then I know that I'm bi.

[devahn8]

5 years old. I never knew what this weird feeling was that always gave me a boner until 6 years later though.

[Soyakninja]

My whole life! Like 5 or 4 I think. I had a crush on my babysitter. However I didn't come out till I was 19 to my friends and I was 21 when u came out to my parents boy that wasn't fun


Soyakninja

[James]

bumping this thread so wondering 1 can find it

[Wiggedjay]

I hope this isn't going to sound to sick, but the first time I saw a penis fully erect was when I was around 8 and I knew I liked it....the problem was it was my Dad's. I always knew from the first time I kissed a girl when I was 10 that they were not for me. At 11 all my fantasies were about boys...I finally put a name to the way I was feeling when I was 13 and I knew I was gay. When I kissed my first boy he was a black guy of the same age at around the same time...my head and body exploded with the most wonderful feeling...it was nothing like when I kissed a girl it was incredible. I am glad to say that despite being excited by my Dad's boner I have never been attracted to father and son role play or exclusively to older guys. I am though still very attracted to black guys.