so it seems like a lot of people who might be considered bisexual still prefer to identify as gay ?
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For me it's merely because I'm VERY predominantly into men. Also, being openly bisexual seems to cause a lot more attention; people ask loads of questions, some people get suspicious etc.
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Honestly the whole 'bi-but-identify-as-gay-for-convenience' phenomenon is new to me, but unsurprising considering some of the misconceptions about ac/dc's.
"Oh you'll figure it out." No you fuckwit, I have figured it out.
"Bi people are sluts/promiscuous." A larger overall number of potential choices does not equate to more of those choices being made. Kindly suck a tailpipe, please.
"No one is really bi, just lying/confused." Brilliant, that one. So tell me, how have you figured out how to breathe? That seems to be a more fitting challenge for someone of your, um, mental faculties.
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I considered myself Bi when I was in my teens. At the time being gay was considered a bad thing. (At least I thought it was bad due to my surroundings) Telling myself I was Bi meant I still liked girls even though I was checking out the men. Eventually the pendulum swung over to gay and I accepted the person I am today, which is gay.
Do I still like women? Yes, but strictly platonically. I have no sexual interest in sleeping with a woman. I still have "girl friends" but they are just friends who happen to be girls. I couldn't be intimate with any of them.
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