hank Wrote:I agree with you. I have difficulty understanding what you mean and who you are talking to because you call me sis, ha ha ha, that is okay. I t think I understand you now. Funny because I don't know what I am referred to in the gay lingo. I am out of the loop. I am a really manly guy, not really "fem" at all. I thought that was like Butch but i am curious now, what would you call a guy that likes fishing and fixing cars drinking a beer or two, just a manly guy that likes other guys?
And are the "fem" dudes drawn to them.
Gurl what the heck? Hold on Sis, let's start from the top;
I call everyone except a select few Sis, because you all are my Sisters in Arms, get it together hunni  . And as for not understanding me...most "butch" guys don't lol.
As for reference, I would just call you whatever the heck you are, Gay, Bisexual, A Guy... Like, I don't go looking to call people by their labels or to be called by one either, so just whatevs Gurl... And there is no Gay Lingo, half if not most of the guys here have no gay ass clue as to what the words I says mean half the time.
Again, I would just call you a Guy who likes Guys and yes, "Fem" guys count in that also, despite popular belief here and most of gay culture in general.
A guy's a guy and if you like'em then you like'em.
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QueenOdi Wrote:Gurl what the heck? Hold on Sis, let's start from the top;
I call everyone except a select few Sis, because you all are my Sisters in Arms, get it together hunni . And as for not understanding me...most "butch" guys don't lol.
As for reference, I would just call you whatever the heck you are, Gay, Bisexual, A Guy... Like, I don't go looking to call people by their labels or to be called by one either, so just whatevs Gurl... And there is no Gay Lingo, half if not most of the guys here have no gay ass clue as to what the words I says mean half the time.
Again, I would just call you a Guy who likes Guys and yes, "Fem" guys count in that also, despite popular belief here and most of gay culture in general.
A guy's a guy and if you like'em then you like'em.
Ha ha ha, I never know if you are being serious. Didn't mean any offense. I agree you are who you are. I have never really been around gay people. I only just came out about a year ago things work slow for me so I still am picturing the movie stereotype of gay people.
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hank Wrote:Ha ha ha, I never know if you are being serious. Didn't mean any offense. I agree you are who you are. I have never really been around gay people. I only just came out about a year ago things work slow for me so I still am picturing the movie stereotype of gay people.
Hunni, just do what comes naturally and you'll be set sweets.
I'm always serious, just depends on what about and trust and believe Boo, it would take a whole lot more to offend me, growing up in my skin, thick skin is a pre-requisite.
Don't try to incorporate stereotypes into your life Sis, cause you'll flop at every step. Take one step at a time until you can run comfortably in these new shoes. After all, heels take time :p
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QueenOdi Wrote:Hunni, just do what comes naturally and you'll be set sweets.
I'm always serious, just depends on what about and trust and believe Boo, it would take a whole lot more to offend me, growing up in my skin, thick skin is a pre-requisite.
Don't try to incorporate stereotypes into your life Sis, cause you'll flop at every step. Take one step at a time until you can run comfortably in these new shoes. After all, heels take time :p
Just need to communicate with others. All of my friends are married heterosexuals so I am not sure about this
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hank Wrote:Just need to communicate with others. All of my friends are married heterosexuals so I am not sure about this
Sure. But don't base your life on your friend's opinions or anyone elses for that matter. True friends are like roots of a tree and stay, while fake ones are like leaves and perhaps branches, which blow away or break off.
Inspect your tree closely Sis.
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QueenOdi Wrote:Sure. But don't base your life on your friend's opinions or anyone elses for that matter. True friends are like roots of a tree and stay, while fake ones are like leaves and perhaps branches, which blow away or break off.
Inspect your tree closely Sis.
Wow Queen, thats a very beautiful saying 
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MisterTinkles Wrote:My reply is based on what I have seen and heard for myself, from people claiming to be "bisexual".
Not one of them has had the ability to make any kind of commitment.
And until I see different, thats what I believe.
That's your experience then, but to me that sounds like, "People who go gaga over blondes and redheads can never make any kind of commitment to either." I see them equally able to commit either way (though some have "leanings"). I do believe my bisexual partner has been very loyal to me for about 5 years now, and that's despite that before me she only had serious relationships with men (only 3 brief flings in high school & college before me). Actually, I assumed I was just going to be another brief fling myself and was surprised when it became more.
However, what I COULD see is that because of beliefs like this bisexuals find it easy to claim one label or the other when they do commit or settle down as they get flak from gays and straights both. So they have a lot of encouragement to say "I'm straight" if they settle with someone of the opposite gender or say "I'm gay" if with the same gender in order to escape criticism and harsh judgment, and therefore it would encourage views like this that say they can't commit, because many who do are bullied into not admitting they're bi by both the gays AND the straights so that only the "players" are easily visible.
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QueenOdi Wrote:Sure. But don't base your life on your friend's opinions or anyone elses for that matter. True friends are like roots of a tree and stay, while fake ones are like leaves and perhaps branches, which blow away or break off.
Inspect your tree closely Sis.
This is so quotable.
Well said <3
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bluefox4000 Wrote:Ok.....5 years married BTW.....but ok.
Mick
Good for you.
Now, if you can find me 100 more like you, I can change my opinion a bit.
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QueenOdi Wrote:Omg Daddy, I was so gonna say that!
No offense, but got a problem? Have an introduction with my clit and politely bite it, cause I don't have time Sis, Like I don't have it.
It was implied by me talking about Gay Males and their lack of Puss interest, however much they may have "preferred" otherwise. So it shouldn't even be offensive and if it was, I didn't mean for it to be and again, introduce yourself to my clit.
Besides, I already get the sense Ms.Meggy-Chan don't like me, cause she ain't never typed a word in the gayest direction toward me, and when she has, it's to disagree or frown upon something I may have said or agreed with, "pulling her sword" I suppose it is then?
Well I got a sword too and while I'd rather not fight, I won't take a slash laying down.
I don't know why she would be offended by me, as I love lesbians, they're the best peepz along with Queens, so what's the prob? Oh there isn't one? That's what I thought too...
An honorary new member of Assholes Anonymous!!!
Or in Queenies case.....Asshoe's Anonymous!!
LOL
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