This Guy Gets Me So Confused

[taintedheart]

A guy (called Robert) started talking to me who I know he was bisexual. And we texted a lot, and we texted for about 10 months until he stopped texting me, I didnt know why so i started investigating who his friends were, and there was this friend he had. I added his friend on Facebook and the next day he accepted the friend request. (I added him because I thought his friend might be bisexual like Robert). His friend's name is Kyle. So kyle texted me and said "What's up"? I repiled whats up, and hes like "Do we know each other"? And I'm like no, and hes like "Oh well hi! whats up? " and we started talking since then.

It is been 5 months since we have talked, I've never hang out with him so we dont know each other that well, but we have become great friends. I started having a crush on him the second month we started talking and liked him alot but never said anything. So we call each other "bitch". And sometimes we play and he always tells me how he has fucked girls. Oh btw I'm 15 and gay and he's 17, I think he is bisexual. Anyways we started talking yesterday at night and started telling each other jokes, and he started with the sexual jokes. I sent him a dick sliced in two and told him how painful it looked.
He said"You just took a picture of your dick, didn't you?" (referring to the dick split in two)
I said " Naa its yours" he said "You love my dick that you even took a picture of it" I said "In your dreams" He saic" you want it in your mouth and ass" I replied " AND more"
He said "Go to hell lol" and I said "hahah" Then he said " I have to work tomorrow but I am still up" I said " I know I bet its because you are jerking off" he said " Yea with your picture" and I said "Yea because you like it" Hes like "I jerk off and you finger yourself" I said " You finger yourself and I jerk off" and then he said "OR YOU JERK OFF AND I FINGER YOU?" (I was speechless because I couldnt believe it, I didnt know what to reply so I just said "What if I finger you while you jerk off" then he said "Cheater-.-" and I said "You didnt answer the question!" He replied "Why are we talking about this?" and well he changed subject. I dont why he didnt continue. He is leaving town but will come back And i texted him we should hang out before you go for the first time, he read my text and didnt answer and has been getting online on Whatsapp but doesnt reply
I really like him! We live in a really small town so I guess hes scared I might tell someone(Which im not because because im also inside the closet) Please what do you think? He confuses me a lot and I like him. (Asking Robert about Kyle isn't an option, I have my reasons)

[Bowyn Aerrow]

First, Hi and welcome to Gayspeak.

Your tale of woe is common...

Being gay/Bi in this world isn't easy to find other bi/gay fellas (or gals, depending on your nature).

I mean its not like you can look at their chest and see that they are 'opposite you' thus most likely (like 98% likely) to be compatible hardware, or software...

I fear that the only way to go is to ask. And yes this means you need to confess your homosexuality first and then say 'Are you gay/Bi? I ask because I really like you and thought maybe there could possibly be........'

Yes that opens a huge door of risks, and yes you can be potentially hurt, blackmailed, outted, and lots of other things.

Unfortunately straight guys think is perfectly find to joke around about being gay.... they see no harm in this sort of 'joke'. So it is possible (about 98% possible) he is a straight guy who is joking around.

[Chas]

You say you think hes bi, too many people throw around gay related jokes. You need to know if this person is bi, reading too much into these things cab be dangerous if your thoughts prove wrong.

[pellaz]

welcome to gay speak, stay a while

go with your gut feelings. and if they are he is scared, affirm your evening with him is what you two want to make of it no more no less and your still his friend in the way he wants you to be.

the above sounds like junk.
but sexuality is somewhat fluid and for sure can be different for everyone. Maybe like the color of his hair, he is not going to change his path for you. You can be supportive.
are you really looking for a bf? than find someone who knows they are gay in the way you are. He she will know exactly what to do.

[Juniorlove]

welcome to gay speak, stay a while

go with your gut feelings. and if they are he is scared, affirm your evening with him is what you two want to make of it no more no less and your still his friend in the way he wants you to be.

the above sounds like junk.
but sexuality is somewhat fluid and for sure can be different for everyone. Maybe like the color of his hair, he is not going to change his path for you. You can be supportive.
are you really looking for a bf? than find someone who knows they are gay in the way you are. He she will know exactly what to do.

I agree, I think the problem is that we tend to fall for people who are not really on the same level of awareness of our sexuality. It's not impossible, but it's harder for sure. Especially when that person really isn't looking for a real solid relationship.

[Tyrion]

Interesting read.. but just wanted to throw in that I'd prefer it if you or anyone else never send me a picture of a dick split in two. :eek: