06-14-2013, 10:30 AM
Hello Everyone,
Um I'm in a bit of dilemma. A bit of back story, i've been talking with this guy on OkCupid. We share a good amount of interests, personalities that are similar, on friendly terms. There was a period where he went though some very hard times, and during that time he stopped talking to me. A couple months later he came back apologizing, and I attempted to just pretend nothing happened. He explained to me the troubles, and I thought we made a good milestone in our friendship considering how we live in different states yet he is comfortable enough to share with me what is happening.
Fast forward, we stopped talking on OkCupid and are now talking via messenger apps. I've had some good long conversations with him, and I do genuinely like him. So my dilemma is I don't know how I should approach our friendship. I want to date him or at least propose to date him after a few meetings. I'm kinda old fashioned in that sense. This is the first gay guy i've felt this way about, and I feel like i'm in high school again ready to hide in a corner, or too scared to talk to him about it. I don't want to seem too forward with him considering he is pretty introverted like me.
Um I'm in a bit of dilemma. A bit of back story, i've been talking with this guy on OkCupid. We share a good amount of interests, personalities that are similar, on friendly terms. There was a period where he went though some very hard times, and during that time he stopped talking to me. A couple months later he came back apologizing, and I attempted to just pretend nothing happened. He explained to me the troubles, and I thought we made a good milestone in our friendship considering how we live in different states yet he is comfortable enough to share with me what is happening.
Fast forward, we stopped talking on OkCupid and are now talking via messenger apps. I've had some good long conversations with him, and I do genuinely like him. So my dilemma is I don't know how I should approach our friendship. I want to date him or at least propose to date him after a few meetings. I'm kinda old fashioned in that sense. This is the first gay guy i've felt this way about, and I feel like i'm in high school again ready to hide in a corner, or too scared to talk to him about it. I don't want to seem too forward with him considering he is pretty introverted like me.