Hey guys I can't get hard in a condom, I put it on and it goes loose. It's my new partner, and he doesn't wanna do bareback cuz he says he still doesn't know me, and that's understandable. Any suggestions? Maybe pills?
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This is extremely common, many guys lose their erection while putting a condom.
LateBloomer is right: it's an awkward situation, it's distracting and it may cause some anxiety (adrenaline is an erection killer), so it's only natural that most men lose their erection. Why don't you ask your bf to put it on you?
Don't go for the pills, not just yet. Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, Zyprima, etc. are very effective but they're prescription drugs and should only be taken under the supervision of a doctor (urologist).
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get to know your partner is important but also be aware of the types of testing and the required incubation periods required to get an accurate test. Clinically thats the time you got to wait.
If all else fails use the pills
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yeah maybe go to a test center together and then he can see your results and u can see his
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could be that your not used to the pressure, maybe try by yourself or a ring to get used to it
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it's happened to me as well, as I put the condom on, I went limp mainly because I was so incredibly nervous. However, once I got over the nervousness, I was fine and able to put on the condom. take your time, get comfortable sexually with each other
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I have the same problem. I can't get hard when you put on a rubber either.
...I'm so sorry. Seriously, there's something wrong with me.
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