What turns you on?

[kidchameleon]

Lately it seems my biggest turn on is either guys who are bi-curious, or bad guys who need help getting their sh*t together.
Y'know, because I can totally change them

Funnily enough, it works out as 'bout as bad as you'd expect most of the time :p

[Spectrum7]

-Hairy body
-Body type can rage from chubby to normal ( I don't like them too jacked cuz I get insecure lols)
-Beards. Beards turn me on. Alot.
So..to summarize it...bears and daddies

Ok so I'm like the exact opposite of you. I don't like hairy men and beards at all, and they are a total turn off. I prefer a men with a smooth body so that when I rub oil on him, he better glow like a newly polished bronze statue with curves and details like the novice craftsmanship of a 4th century Roman slave. God that's such a turn on!! XD

[Arkansota]

Something like this?

Has to be certifiably non-nonsensical and a comic to boot :biggrin:

My best friend's dad has a viagra lightswitch

[TKC]

If we're speaking of what turns me on about a stranger on the street, they're:

A little thick - either a bit of gut or well muscled...a well muscled bottom is a gift from the baby Jesus.
Salt 'n Pepper hair
That twinkling in their eyes that shows that they're self-aware
Intelligence
Humor
Kindness
Situations where you see a bit more skin than is typically shown in public (like when a guy reaches up to scratch his head or something and it exposes just a bit of his torso)
Big ears
Hairy (the hell did I forget that!)
But more than anything - confidence

What turns me on as a lover:

Humor
Generosity
Self-awareness
A defined spiritual path that is fluid
Visible proof that he takes care of himself
Social consciousness
Kindness
Financial independence
Discipline, drive, and the other qualities that show he's on a mission in life and he failure isn't an option
Humbleness
Creativity
Independence
The ability to go from completely serious to complete absurd in a conversation without a second thought
Maintaining eye contact
Confidence
Someone who isn't constantly checking his texts or facebook when we spend time together
Strong opinions, the ability to articulate them, and openness to changing them
And more than anything else, intelligence

[SolemnBoy]

Intelligence, musical talent, bondage, age differences, sarcasm (...), shyness, dorkiness (the REAL kind not The Big Bang Theory lol so quirky kind), slim bodies.

[trialbyerror]

Intelligence, musical talent, bondage, age differences, sarcasm (...), shyness, dorkiness (the REAL kind not The Big Bang Theory lol so quirky kind), slim bodies.

Yes! Ummm Yes!!!!! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! No... Slightly padded at the waist?

So I'm in with a chance :flirty-thank-you-sm

[partisan]

30+ . Med - large build. Confident & assertive in and out of bed. Nice eyes - any colour. 6ft+ .Clean shaven or a trim tash. Fun. Good hygiene. Smooth back, hairy chest. Well-dressed. Intelligent.

[bluefox4000]

If you have a large Eclectic collection and knowledge of music. I'm basically yours, lol

Mick

[starbelly]

I find a wide array of "types" of guys attractive for different reasons, so the scope is kind of broad, but in general, I'm usually really turned on by facial hair, chest hair, and nice smiles, if we're talking physicality. I also really have a thing for arms— if you can see veins popping out of the backs of their arms (around their elbows), it's like insta-turn on. Not sure why on that one.

Since what appeals to me on a physical level is so various, it's hard to pin down. I really also just like genuinely nice guys; cordial and kind, but still lax and with a bit of badassery. I basically like sensitive dickheads.

[Lilitu]

I can only think of things that turn me off. I still haven't come off my big bitchrant mode that started on Monday so here I go:

People who obsess over things.
People who aren't hygienic.
Macho men.
People who tell me what to do.
People who are inconsiderate and lets other people down in favour of their own interest.
Dirty hair.
Shaving legs.
People who treat me like a prince, it's never nice for me. It makes me feel like a toddler.
People who over organise to the extent that they want to organise my life so that it syncs with theirs.