08-02-2013, 08:31 PM
I hope some of you here might help me with the situation in my life. I’m gay and some time ago I got dumped by my boyfriend. We were together for 6 years and it was the happiest time of my life. Everything was perfect, we always had time each for other and nothing else mattered. We almost didn’t argue at all. I loved him to pieces and I know he loved me too. And now one day he just told me that it’s over. He said that we’re not a couple anymore and he never wants to see me again. Of course, I was unpleasantly surprised and upset. I couldn’t believe it and I still can’t believe it’s over.
And the weirdest thing is that he doesn’t want to explain me why he did it. He only said that it's better for us to break up. I think that after all these years that we spent together, I deserve at least an explanation. I just want to know what happened. I don’t believe he doesn’t love me anymore, I don’t think that love can disappear so fast. The day before he broke up with me, everything was wonderful, we had a great time snuggling on the couch, watching movies. And then he suddenly tells me everything is over and obviously expects me not to ask anything. How should I react? He’s my only love and I’m really hurt. He avoids me and he doesn’t look very happy as well. He refuses to talk to me but I want to know what’s wrong, I want to know the reason behind his behavior. Maybe it’s just some misunderstanding or something that we can fix. A friend of mine told me to just grab him and hold until he starts talking, but it would be too brutal. What should I do?
And the weirdest thing is that he doesn’t want to explain me why he did it. He only said that it's better for us to break up. I think that after all these years that we spent together, I deserve at least an explanation. I just want to know what happened. I don’t believe he doesn’t love me anymore, I don’t think that love can disappear so fast. The day before he broke up with me, everything was wonderful, we had a great time snuggling on the couch, watching movies. And then he suddenly tells me everything is over and obviously expects me not to ask anything. How should I react? He’s my only love and I’m really hurt. He avoids me and he doesn’t look very happy as well. He refuses to talk to me but I want to know what’s wrong, I want to know the reason behind his behavior. Maybe it’s just some misunderstanding or something that we can fix. A friend of mine told me to just grab him and hold until he starts talking, but it would be too brutal. What should I do?