Feminine Guys

[sillyboy86]

So how about bi guys who like masculine guys? Am I just some sort of freak? If so, then awesome!

I think the opposite. As a bi I like masculine males and feminine females. Cause If I have to go for a feminine male...It's better directly try with a female!

[bobby]

there is a guy in school who is a lil bit girly, but i think he is awesome soooo cute but i like others too. maybe some think i am girly being small but no one ever said that to me. oh well!! who cares

[Blake]

Seems like I've caused quite a debate...

I'm definitely not saying anyone is a freak or trying to insult anyone by calling them straight.

Everybody deserve to love who they want to and I'm in no place to judge.

I'm not trying to enforce my personal preferences and perceptions on anyone.

[Sylph]

I think the opposite. As a bi I like masculine males and feminine females. Cause If I have to go for a feminine male...It's better directly try with a female!

[COLOR="Purple"]I don't agree. This view point has many many flaws and holes in it and while it's your opinion, Feminine guys and Girls are different.

To speak elementary so, Girls have Vaginas, Guys, who were born biologically boys, regardless of their expression of self, have Penises.

Oh well shit, who would've guessed something like that could be overlooked?

I get offended when guys say that, not much offends me, but it makes me feel less than worthy to even be called a guy and that I'm not acceptable and I think any other gay guy who is more in touch with his femininity will agree.

There is nothing wrong with Females, absolutely nothing, but for all biological intents and purposes, I am not one, so equivalating me to a female and saying that I'm not worthy to be a boyfriend due to my femininity, is not only an insult to me as a fully functioning Male, but also a back handed insult to Women, as if to say, because Feminine Males are like gurls, you wouldn't date them, but yet would date a woman?

It's a double negative and I don't get how guys can have this view, but it's your opinion, I'd just appreciate that people stop saying it(That Fem guys are basically gurls). Because it's very offensive.

I don't go around saying I won't date a masculine guy, because they're egotistical brutish gorillas.

I actually like all guys, because they are guys, not because of their masculinity or femininity.

/End Rant

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[sillyboy86]

[COLOR="Purple"]I don't agree. This view point has many many flaws and holes in it and while it's your opinion, Feminine guys and Girls are different.

To speak elementary so, Girls have Vaginas, Guys, who were born biologically boys, regardless of their expression of self, have Penises.

Oh well shit, who would've guessed something like that could be overlooked?

I get offended when guys say that, not much offends me, but it makes me feel less than worthy to even be called a guy and that I'm not acceptable and I think any other gay guy who is more in touch with his femininity will agree.

There is nothing wrong with Females, absolutely nothing, but for all biological intents and purposes, I am not one, so equivalating me to a female and saying that I'm not worthy to be a boyfriend due to my femininity, is not only an insult to me as a fully functioning Male, but also a back handed insult to Women, as if to say, because Feminine Males are like gurls, you wouldn't date them, but yet would date a woman?

It's a double negative and I don't get how guys can have this view, but it's your opinion, I'd just appreciate that people stop saying it(That Fem guys are basically gurls). Because it's very offensive.

I don't go around saying I won't date a masculine guy, because they're egotistical brutish gorillas.

I actually like all guys, because they are guys, not because of their masculinity or femininity.

/End Rant

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I apologize to offending, it wasn't my intention at all.
And this is only my point of view, nothing absolute. But I didn't say that feminine men are woman, neither with some idiot prejudice like talking about 'fake women' or something stupid like this...
I'm also not the most masculine guy around, seriously and in this case I accept the behaviour or more important the nature of everyone, but I was saying a personal opinion, and honestly, If i negate that I'm lying, at the moment. But an opinion can change.

But I understand that I was a little rude, and I hope to not fall again, so sorry.

[Sylph]

I apologize to offending, it wasn't my intention at all.
And this is only my point of view, nothing absolute. But I didn't say that feminine men are woman, neither with some idiot prejudice like talking about 'fake women' or something stupid like this...
I'm also not the most masculine guy around, seriously and in this case I accept the behaviour or more important the nature of everyone, but I was saying a personal opinion, and honestly, If i negate that I'm lying, at the moment. But an opinion can change.

But I understand that I was a little rude, and I hope to not fall again, so sorry.

Oh gurl shush, I'm just a bitch sometimes >.>

When I saw "Cause If I have to go for a feminine male...It's better directly try with a female "

I was like oh hell no

I get you weren't trying to be offensive, but it came across that way to me, because the implications that going after a feminine guy would mean you may as well go after a girl is what made my Tits angry, but I probably went alittle extra lol

I know it's your opinion, gurl don't judge me ! My period is on okay, and I'm entitled to act out my emotions dammit! T-T

Ugh you boys annoy me :< making me cry

Bastards! Good for nothing penis wielders!!! :crying-and-sorry-li

:hugs-and-kisses-smi

[NightSwan]

Well, I can't say I dislike men with feminine characteristics right of the bat, but it depends on what you define as "feminine behavior". Also, why is "feminine" a bad thing? heh
If by feminine you mean whiny and moany, I don't like this on women, either.
My favorite type of person (as in, one I'd date or want to be good friends with) is confident, cynical and callused to the point of not minding and embracing my often weird behavior.
This applies to both genders. This also doesn't mean I wouldn't consider any other type of personality.

I'm very positive (sometimes even biased) towards gay men (and women, obviously ;p), regardless of what they act like.
But everyone acts differently... I've met supposedly straight, married men who completely fooled me.

The problem lies in our society, which dictates what a "man" and a "woman" should be and behave like and should one deviate from these "norms", there is no stamp of approval.
Generalization is so much easier, after all, but we can't all fit into two molds.

[nfisher1226]

Hit the nail on the head with that last paragraph there. People are individuals and deserve to be taken as such. One should realize that we're dealing with human nature though, and the maturity to truly see people objectively without pre-judgement is actually quite a rare thing. When you find people with that capacity hang on to them tight. They'll enrich your lives.

[megumidesu]

Also, why is "feminine" a bad thing?

exactlyyyy

[SilverFrost]

I really like this: