09-09-2013, 06:07 AM
Zeus Wrote:Starbelly... it's a pretty liberal town, so I have that going for me. But the smallness of it means everyone knows your business which can be a drag. I've checked out the online dating sites just to see how many potential people are out there (am not planning to date while still married). There's only about 5 or 10 in my age group on the big sites. Goes up to about 20 if I search for younger guys, but most of them want to meet young guys too.
The online thing makes chances look slim, but like Abel said, finding love in the city isn't a particularly easy feat either (too many guys looking for hookups and partying, which is so not my scene). Don't get too hung up on the statistics, and take it one thing at a time. You haven't come out yet (right?), so once you've taken that step and settled after all that, then is the time to keep your eyes out. Right now wouldn't be an opportune time to start a relationship with a guy anyway, which you said yourself. You seem like a nice guy, I'm sure all will be fine. These things take time, and God, how I know this