I need help. Legit.
10-09-2013, 08:33 AM
I seriously need help. However, I have absolutely zero gay "friends" or even straight friends that will listen to me or try to offer me solid advice so I'm going to ask you guys.
Back in July I met this guy on hornet and I noticed that his tag line said he was not looking for a relationship or hook up that he was only looking for chat. I understood and I wasn't really looking for anything either however he was wearing a shirt for one of my all time favorite bands. So I figured at least I would tell him that his shirt was cool. I messaged him and said "that shirt.. two thumbs up!" and since then we have basically been talking non-stop. Also the time right before he moved to college we would hang out almost everyday for the majority of the day. Plus, we text pretty much all the time unless he is in class. I have become really attached to him and have some pretty strong feelings for him but, last time I got attached to someone I was extremely hurt and I'm scared of having to face the same thing so I'm hoping that you can advise me on what to do or give me your opinion because I'm very confused.
The signs that I get that make me think he does like me are: whenever we text he tends to use extra letters and smileys. When we hang out sometimes he will play punch me or bump into me. I have also been saving to move to Seattle for some time, which is way off from Moultrie where I live and basically he kept saying everywhere I said was too far until I said Savannah which is one hour away from where he is going to college. Whenever I have to leave he always walks me out to my car and he gives me a hug(which omg dude the best hug ever) and always tells me to let him know when I get home. Another things is we have a lot in common, even his mother noticed haha and me and her get along great. Another thing is he playfully calls me whore lmao and when I say something like "no i'm not dammit!!" he will say "don't be mad, you're my favorite whore
"
The things that make me think that he doesn't are: about a month after he met he told me that his mother asked him had me and him been fooling around, which we haven't, and he told me that he told her no that he really didn't see me that way that he saw me as the friend he always wanted. Also, whenever he says he is going to bed I always tell him to sleep well and good night(in german because my ancestors are german and he always picks on me about it) and I put a smiley at the end "" like that and his response is either "goodnight" "goodnight." or "goodnight!"
Maybe I'm over thinking everything but I'm so scared to tell him how I feel and make a fool of myself. My biggest fear is to drive him away because I just don't know how I could cope.
Thank You from the bottom of my heart!
Mitch
Back in July I met this guy on hornet and I noticed that his tag line said he was not looking for a relationship or hook up that he was only looking for chat. I understood and I wasn't really looking for anything either however he was wearing a shirt for one of my all time favorite bands. So I figured at least I would tell him that his shirt was cool. I messaged him and said "that shirt.. two thumbs up!" and since then we have basically been talking non-stop. Also the time right before he moved to college we would hang out almost everyday for the majority of the day. Plus, we text pretty much all the time unless he is in class. I have become really attached to him and have some pretty strong feelings for him but, last time I got attached to someone I was extremely hurt and I'm scared of having to face the same thing so I'm hoping that you can advise me on what to do or give me your opinion because I'm very confused.
The signs that I get that make me think he does like me are: whenever we text he tends to use extra letters and smileys. When we hang out sometimes he will play punch me or bump into me. I have also been saving to move to Seattle for some time, which is way off from Moultrie where I live and basically he kept saying everywhere I said was too far until I said Savannah which is one hour away from where he is going to college. Whenever I have to leave he always walks me out to my car and he gives me a hug(which omg dude the best hug ever) and always tells me to let him know when I get home. Another things is we have a lot in common, even his mother noticed haha and me and her get along great. Another thing is he playfully calls me whore lmao and when I say something like "no i'm not dammit!!" he will say "don't be mad, you're my favorite whore
" The things that make me think that he doesn't are: about a month after he met he told me that his mother asked him had me and him been fooling around, which we haven't, and he told me that he told her no that he really didn't see me that way that he saw me as the friend he always wanted. Also, whenever he says he is going to bed I always tell him to sleep well and good night(in german because my ancestors are german and he always picks on me about it) and I put a smiley at the end "
" like that and his response is either "goodnight" "goodnight." or "goodnight!" Maybe I'm over thinking everything but I'm so scared to tell him how I feel and make a fool of myself. My biggest fear is to drive him away because I just don't know how I could cope.
Thank You from the bottom of my heart!
Mitch
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