Hi everyone,
I am a lesbian, and kinda scare to tell my parents about my sexuality I do not think they will approve it at all. I just do not know how to tell them. If they do not like it oh well this is who I am.
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sounds like you have the right attitude. often in coming out, parents have problems excepting, in the beginning, but will eventually ease into some level of comfort. tho, not knowing you, or your family. of course no money back guarantee here.
keep your head up. do you have a support group? friends can be crucial in times like this. hope this experience treats you kindly!!
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Make sure you have a good support system, close friends or whatever comes close...you know, people who can be there for you whatever happens.
If you have close people who know, they can help you to develop a good approach to your parents
do it at your own pace, do it if you're comfortable.
Best of lucks, since it's a tricky matter, but a highly rewarding one from what I hear
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Yeah I told some friends they were surprised at first but they accept it. I just want my parents to understand but like you said they will be surprised at first about it.
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Why do you feel the need to tell? This is your life, your feelings, you don't have to share them if you don't want to.
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I mean do not have to tell MisterLove. It is just hard keeping something like this from them.
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I'm not sure most parents want to know anything about their child's sex life. Don't hide it, but don't push it either.
If it concerns them, they'll most likely ask. At that point, they're ready for the conversation. Or they'll figure it out and not ask. For example, I live in the gayest part of LA. What else need be said?
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