Hi everyone I'm Alan

[LeeSecret]

you now have your own choice, i hope you will be happy in life.

[elad12]

Welcome Alan! Similar story here except my wife passed away after a 30 year marriage.

[Shiner]

[Michael]

Welcome,
chat to me anytime.

Michael

[SilverFrost]

Welcome to GS

[southbiochem]

extremely ignorant about what it means to be gay in today’s world.
Alan

You and me both..

Fisrt, welcome, sir

Second, I understand the desire for "normalcy" as I have it myself..

I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. Hopefuly both you and her can start a new stage in life and be happier.

I thank you for sharing your story, cause many stories fromolder folks like yours have convinced me to come to terms about being gay and not pursue a marriage with a girl trying to be normal and knowingly living an unhappy life for her and for me..

now, I have the advantage that I'm not confused about my sexuality, unlike many folks who marry off and then have enlightment years later..so I get why many folks do pursue marriage in the hopes of having a normal life

I sincerely hope that everything goes well for you from now on

share with us your experience and feel free to ask anything that concerns you