10-30-2013, 10:25 AM
A year ago to this day I started dating this guy. He was the kindest and one of the more charming guys I had ever met. We had gotten along greatly and it got to the point where he and I shared an intimate moment (my first time with a guy in fact). But the day after our "special night" he texted me and broke things off with me.
I was devastated, heartbroken, and hurt. There I was thinking a guy finally liked me only to get dumped after I trusted him. A week after I got dumped however I ended up texting him, I wanted to know why I got dumped. After a few hours of a back and forth argument he finally told me: he dumped me to be with his ex.
He was apparently still with his ex when he asked me out, yet he never bothered to tell me. He led me on and cheated on me and his ex/rekindled whatever guy.
But I am going to bed feeling like Karma finally caught up to him after he treated me like trash: he has a Grindr profile where he says he is single and it also says he's only looking for friends since he was recently dumped (mind you the guy he was with was a fiancée, someone that he had plans of marrying).
I can't help but be happy that he got dumped by the guy he "cheated" on me with. I feel bad that I am taking joy from his pain, but he broke my only rule: don't f*** with my heart. If that makes me a bad person, fine. I'm just glad he got a taste of his own medicine. This is my confession of being a person taking joy from a person's pain. I couldn't help but cheer happily that he is miserable.
I was devastated, heartbroken, and hurt. There I was thinking a guy finally liked me only to get dumped after I trusted him. A week after I got dumped however I ended up texting him, I wanted to know why I got dumped. After a few hours of a back and forth argument he finally told me: he dumped me to be with his ex.
He was apparently still with his ex when he asked me out, yet he never bothered to tell me. He led me on and cheated on me and his ex/rekindled whatever guy.
But I am going to bed feeling like Karma finally caught up to him after he treated me like trash: he has a Grindr profile where he says he is single and it also says he's only looking for friends since he was recently dumped (mind you the guy he was with was a fiancée, someone that he had plans of marrying).
I can't help but be happy that he got dumped by the guy he "cheated" on me with. I feel bad that I am taking joy from his pain, but he broke my only rule: don't f*** with my heart. If that makes me a bad person, fine. I'm just glad he got a taste of his own medicine. This is my confession of being a person taking joy from a person's pain. I couldn't help but cheer happily that he is miserable.