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Be nice
#1
Here lately my personality has changed quite a bit. I used to be an ill tempered, mean, aggressive son-of-a-bitch. But through the whole "coming out" process I have met some great people. And also I have much more respect for people I already knew, just because of their acceptance and encouragement.

Since people have been so nice and kind towards me I really feel the need to pay it back somehow. I was already a volunteer firefighter and first response for emergencies, which I now try to take even more part in, time permitting. But I recently started volunteering at a hospital to help young people with disabilities. And, on a smaller scale. I often pay for the vehicle behind me in a drive through.

I just think that theres to much hate and terrible people in the world. If more people started doing small thing like that It would be a nice change. Whether they have different views or opinions, just be nice anyway.

I especially think this is important in the gay community. Because a lot of people may have the wrong views about us. Wouldn't that maybe help change that? Maybe not soon and drastically but maybe one person at a time.
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#2
well done mate, been gay and hiding it can really come out in aggression etc, guess you realise that now - turns out your a nice guy after all Smile , forget your past son of a bitch attitude and be the man you are now - helping others is fantastic, don't forget yourself though..take care
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#3
Glad you are feeling better about things. It does help.

Hmmmm, firefighter? Grrrrrr and WOOF!!!!


The only other comment I have, is technology has made people stupid.
Ignorant laws have made people lazy.
The people have taken a "page" from governments, and disregard common sense, humility, honesty, and respect.

All this together equals violent, moronic, and destructive people.
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#4
Nice post, Saint. We could use fewer ill-tepmered, mean, aggressive sons-of-bitches in this world. I just have one question: what drive-thru's do you frequent?
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#5
Saint Wrote:Here lately my personality has changed quite a bit. I used to be an ill tempered, mean, aggressive son-of-a-bitch. But through the whole "coming out" process I have met some great people. And also I have much more respect for people I already knew, just because of their acceptance and encouragement.

Since people have been so nice and kind towards me I really feel the need to pay it back somehow. I was already a volunteer firefighter and first response for emergencies, which I now try to take even more part in, time permitting. But I recently started volunteering at a hospital to help young people with disabilities. And, on a smaller scale. I often pay for the vehicle behind me in a drive through.

I just think that theres to much hate and terrible people in the world. If more people started doing small thing like that It would be a nice change. Whether they have different views or opinions, just be nice anyway.

I especially think this is important in the gay community. Because a lot of people may have the wrong views about us. Wouldn't that maybe help change that? Maybe not soon and drastically but maybe one person at a time.

You're agressiveness maybe have been do to you're closeted times, as it seems..once you got out you started feeling good about yourself..Confusedmile:

It's admirable that you do so much volunteeringand good deeds...

I myself have trouble doing stuff like that, but maybe even say hi with a smile can make a person's day....

congrants on this stance, Saint..
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#6
Geminize Wrote:Nice post, Saint. We could use fewer ill-tepmered, mean, aggressive sons-of-bitches in this world. I just have one question: what drive-thru's do you frequent?

Zaxbys, I love my hot wings.
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#7
Ugh... I just love a bad boy who does good lol.

But seriously Saint-kins, that's really good to hear. I'm glad alls working in favour for you darling ;3

You can be a pillar of strength for the unification of your culture and country. Even by just helping one person as you said.

Good on you sugar plum fairy <3
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#8
Sylph Wrote:Ugh... I just love a bad boy who does good lol.

But seriously Saint-kins, that's really good to hear. I'm glad alls working in favour for you darling ;3

You can be a pillar of strength for the unification of your culture and country. Even by just helping one person as you said.

Good on you sugar plum fairy <3

I may have something for you Sylph. A christmas present of sorts.... You should enjoy it.
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#9
It's quite hard for me to imagine you as that mean person, but this Saint I know has a good heart. And you are so right, people waste time for all the anger and hate, but fortunately people can sometimes change We all should try being little bit nicer Smile
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