Be nice

[Saint]

Here lately my personality has changed quite a bit. I used to be an ill tempered, mean, aggressive son-of-a-bitch. But through the whole "coming out" process I have met some great people. And also I have much more respect for people I already knew, just because of their acceptance and encouragement.

Since people have been so nice and kind towards me I really feel the need to pay it back somehow. I was already a volunteer firefighter and first response for emergencies, which I now try to take even more part in, time permitting. But I recently started volunteering at a hospital to help young people with disabilities. And, on a smaller scale. I often pay for the vehicle behind me in a drive through.

I just think that theres to much hate and terrible people in the world. If more people started doing small thing like that It would be a nice change. Whether they have different views or opinions, just be nice anyway.

I especially think this is important in the gay community. Because a lot of people may have the wrong views about us. Wouldn't that maybe help change that? Maybe not soon and drastically but maybe one person at a time.

[matty7]

well done mate, been gay and hiding it can really come out in aggression etc, guess you realise that now - turns out your a nice guy after all , forget your past son of a bitch attitude and be the man you are now - helping others is fantastic, don't forget yourself though..take care

[MisterTinkles]

Glad you are feeling better about things. It does help.

Hmmmm, firefighter? Grrrrrr and WOOF!!!!


The only other comment I have, is technology has made people stupid.
Ignorant laws have made people lazy.
The people have taken a "page" from governments, and disregard common sense, humility, honesty, and respect.

All this together equals violent, moronic, and destructive people.

[Geminize]

Nice post, Saint. We could use fewer ill-tepmered, mean, aggressive sons-of-bitches in this world. I just have one question: what drive-thru's do you frequent?

[southbiochem]

Here lately my personality has changed quite a bit. I used to be an ill tempered, mean, aggressive son-of-a-bitch. But through the whole "coming out" process I have met some great people. And also I have much more respect for people I already knew, just because of their acceptance and encouragement.

Since people have been so nice and kind towards me I really feel the need to pay it back somehow. I was already a volunteer firefighter and first response for emergencies, which I now try to take even more part in, time permitting. But I recently started volunteering at a hospital to help young people with disabilities. And, on a smaller scale. I often pay for the vehicle behind me in a drive through.

I just think that theres to much hate and terrible people in the world. If more people started doing small thing like that It would be a nice change. Whether they have different views or opinions, just be nice anyway.

I especially think this is important in the gay community. Because a lot of people may have the wrong views about us. Wouldn't that maybe help change that? Maybe not soon and drastically but maybe one person at a time.

You're agressiveness maybe have been do to you're closeted times, as it seems..once you got out you started feeling good about yourself..mile:

It's admirable that you do so much volunteeringand good deeds...

I myself have trouble doing stuff like that, but maybe even say hi with a smile can make a person's day....

congrants on this stance, Saint..

[Saint]

Nice post, Saint. We could use fewer ill-tepmered, mean, aggressive sons-of-bitches in this world. I just have one question: what drive-thru's do you frequent?

Zaxbys, I love my hot wings.

[Sylph]

Ugh... I just love a bad boy who does good lol.

But seriously Saint-kins, that's really good to hear. I'm glad alls working in favour for you darling ;3

You can be a pillar of strength for the unification of your culture and country. Even by just helping one person as you said.

Good on you sugar plum fairy <3

[Saint]

Ugh... I just love a bad boy who does good lol.

But seriously Saint-kins, that's really good to hear. I'm glad alls working in favour for you darling ;3

You can be a pillar of strength for the unification of your culture and country. Even by just helping one person as you said.

Good on you sugar plum fairy <3

I may have something for you Sylph. A christmas present of sorts.... You should enjoy it.

[SilverFrost]

It's quite hard for me to imagine you as that mean person, but this Saint I know has a good heart. And you are so right, people waste time for all the anger and hate, but fortunately people can sometimes change We all should try being little bit nicer