plz helpppp !!! i really need an advice on this...

[marktaja]

Hello, my name is mark taja, and i really need your advice and help.
there's this guy who is my friend for a little while ago. we were drinking with our girlfriends at a night club one night and i guess he started feeling dizzy from the drink, i was laying my hand on his shoulders when he whispered in my ear telling me to lower my hand. i checked to see if anyone is looking and found none, so i began to touch his ass although he was wearing a jeans. he started laughing and whispered again in my ear telling me in an ironic way that do you think your girlfriend would dump you if she finds out that you're playing with my ass??.
a couple of weeks passed after that night and neither of us talked about what happened to each other. one night i invited him to sleep over and spend the night at my place. we went and grabbed a vodka bottle and spent the night drinking. we felt dizzy from the drink after almost 3 hours, then we went to sleep. we started chatting each one lying in his bed, then he wanted to show me pics of the girls he met online, so i approached to his bed. after a few minutes, i lifted up the cover a little bit and moved my hand slowly toward his leg while we were chatting. i started to caress his leg, then moved to my hand to his dick from over his pyjamas. he didn't make any move neither said anything. then i let my hand into his pants and started playing with his dick and moved slowly until i reached his asshole. i caressed his asshole and moved back to his dick without him saying anything, yet he kept looking at his phone and kept chatting with me about the girls. after like 3 minutes he told me that he will not have an erection since he dick needs pussy to erect and not a man. i kept on touching his dick, then he tuned to other side telling me to go and sleep. i moved my hand to his ass cheeks and caressed it. he started saying "i'm really lost!!" which i couldn't interpret because i couldn't decide if he was curious or if he was just drunk. he grabbed my hand and removed it from his pants.
i felt so down and went to my bed thinking of what just happened. i slept. we woke up in the morning like nothing happened, we chatted normally, ate breakfast and spent all day together.
after that we never spoke of what happened that night also, but we kept on going out with our girlfriends all together normally to have fun. meanwhile, when we go out for a drink and get a bit drunk, i often chat with him at late nights. i start by telling him to come to my place for another drink and he keeps on replying that he needs girls to be at my place so he can have sex and fuck them. one time i told him to come to place and fuck me, he replied that it's useless since he needs pussy.
to cut it short, i want your advice on this; i'm travelling with him and a friend of ours on monday till thursday or 3 nights. me and him will be sleeping in the same hotel room. i really like this guy and i want to have sex with him. what do you think i should do? how can i seduce him?
i really really need your help, i'm so confused.
awaiting your reply.
thank you.

[Ryocchi]

Resign yourself, you can do nothing else rather than be his friend I also advice you to stop trying to make pass at him because maybe in the long run it will end up annoying him enough to stop being your friend.

You can't change him from not liking dudes as you cannot change yourself from liking dudes.

[megumidesu]

stop cheating on your girlfriend.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

What they hell?

I go to bed and all of the porn writers come out???

This seems like its a form of rape - you get your buddy drunk after on accidental drunk gets him a little loose, then you take advantage of the situation.

Meanwhile you have a girl friend that you are cheating on..

Badly written porn.

What I see from this story is you are a molester. Yeah I know he didn't come right out and say 'stop' but he did his best saying 'It ain't getting erect because I like pussy'.

Sure he laid there and didn't fight, but saying 'I'm lost' meant 'I'm confused, I am afraid.'

Yeah sure he still hangs with you because most likely he has no idea what to do. And yes now you can blackmail his ass and he knows it, so he is most likely terrified to break off this friendship terrified you are going to tell everyone what happened that night.

i start by telling him to come to my place for another drink and he keeps on replying that he needs girls to be at my place so he can have sex and fuck them. one time i told him to come to place and fuck me, he replied that it's useless since he needs pussy.

He is trying to find a way to nicely tell you no without risking you outting him and destroying his life.

Leave the poor guy alone.

[Woollyhats]

He actually doesn't want you. Just stop. I'm 99% sure you're a troll and you have more than one account on this site.

On the chance that you aren't, stop. You're basically forcing yourself onto him, and it's not even like, "Oh I like to do little things to show him I care like him him the occassional massage, how can I explain I like him more though?", it's more like, "SO I LIKE THIS GUY SO I GOT HIM DRUNK AND THEN GRABBED HIS PENIS LOL HOW DO I HAVE SEX NOW?".

Have you heard of date rape? Usually happens to women, where you get a girl drunk and take advantage of her. This is a guy, but it's still the same thing.

This is actually uncomfortable to read.

[marktaja]

Thanks for replying guys...

so you really think i should leave this alone ? i can really feel there's something special between us...i just don't know.

i was really excited about our trip together next week, i just feel depressed now after i read your opinions. it's just that he came on to me at first place, if he didn't i wouldn't be writing this now.

anyways, i hope you have other views on the topic since i'm not trying to rape him or anything, i just thought that he wants to be with me but yet he feels confused and curious about being with a man...

[princealbertofb]

He must feel confused, indeed, and maybe he's not going to allow himself to explore that kind of sexuality with you. So better let it get out of your head. It's not very fair to need to get him drunk before there can be any idea of having sex with him. Maybe while you're away at this other place you can find someone who would be ready to try things with you, but it seems you really want it to be this guy, right? I'm afraid it all sounds a bit hopeless.

[southbiochem]

Hello, my name is mark taja, and i really need your advice and help.
there's this guy who is my friend for a little while ago. we were drinking with our girlfriends at a night club one night and i guess he started feeling dizzy from the drink, i was laying my hand on his shoulders when he whispered in my ear telling me to lower my hand. i checked to see if anyone is looking and found none, so i began to touch his ass although he was wearing a jeans. he started laughing and whispered again in my ear telling me in an ironic way that do you think your girlfriend would dump you if she finds out that you're playing with my ass??.
a couple of weeks passed after that night and neither of us talked about what happened to each other. one night i invited him to sleep over and spend the night at my place. we went and grabbed a vodka bottle and spent the night drinking. we felt dizzy from the drink after almost 3 hours, then we went to sleep. we started chatting each one lying in his bed, then he wanted to show me pics of the girls he met online, so i approached to his bed. after a few minutes, i lifted up the cover a little bit and moved my hand slowly toward his leg while we were chatting. i started to caress his leg, then moved to my hand to his dick from over his pyjamas. he didn't make any move neither said anything. then i let my hand into his pants and started playing with his dick and moved slowly until i reached his asshole. i caressed his asshole and moved back to his dick without him saying anything, yet he kept looking at his phone and kept chatting with me about the girls. after like 3 minutes he told me that he will not have an erection since he dick needs pussy to erect and not a man. i kept on touching his dick, then he tuned to other side telling me to go and sleep. i moved my hand to his ass cheeks and caressed it. he started saying "i'm really lost!!" which i couldn't interpret because i couldn't decide if he was curious or if he was just drunk. he grabbed my hand and removed it from his pants.
i felt so down and went to my bed thinking of what just happened. i slept. we woke up in the morning like nothing happened, we chatted normally, ate breakfast and spent all day together.
after that we never spoke of what happened that night also, but we kept on going out with our girlfriends all together normally to have fun. meanwhile, when we go out for a drink and get a bit drunk, i often chat with him at late nights. i start by telling him to come to my place for another drink and he keeps on replying that he needs girls to be at my place so he can have sex and fuck them. one time i told him to come to place and fuck me, he replied that it's useless since he needs pussy.
to cut it short, i want your advice on this; i'm travelling with him and a friend of ours on monday till thursday or 3 nights. me and him will be sleeping in the same hotel room. i really like this guy and i want to have sex with him. what do you think i should do? how can i seduce him?
i really really need your help, i'm so confused.
awaiting your reply.
thank you.

......Don't you have a girlfriend? Why are you trying to actively cheat on her?..

anyway......assuming this is something noteworthy..

he only lets you touch him when he's drunk

isn't that a bit sad?

leave it be and go search some other guy/girl that actually is into you..

or better yet...stick with the one you already have

jeez

[ThatOneNerd]

1) Get another man/gf because if your willing to do this with another person then your current gf isnt the one. I suspect your just confused yourself so find out what you want in a relationship and your sexuality.

2)Stop relying on alcohol to get some action its not going to end well. Try actual dating, maybe a bar restaurant have one drink to start up the convo and save yourself and try not to be so pushy on the subject of sex makes you look thirsty no offence.

3) Leave this guy alone with the subject because it seems like he wants to stay friends with you but he doesn't want to tell you to back off.

[Blake]

What did I just hear?...
You should never ever try to seduce a straight man, especially when he has already rejected you.
Think of how awkward it'll be between the 2 of you after your brief moment of pleasure.
Plus, what's the point of getting involved with him sexually if he'll not love you back? If you let him fuck you, you are lowering yourself to a piece of sex toy that he uses when he's drunk.
And think about the repercussions if your girlfriends find out. It's not right to cheat in a relationship.
In fact you should sever the ties with your girlfriend since you have already identified yourself being attracted to this guy...