About anal sex... I'm scared

[MisterLove]

So my boyfriend wants to try it, however I am not sure if I want to. I've never done it before so I don't know what to expect. Does it hurt? I read somewhere that it is supposed to hurt the first time, is that true? I do trust my boyfriend and he has always been very gentle with me, but still.....

Is anal really so intense pleasure, better than oral?

Yes and no.

Is television good? Yes, The Sopranos is a wonderful tv show. No, Big Brother isn't.

Same thing with anal sex. If I like my partner and (extremely important!) I feel comfortable and relaxed with him, it's great. If the guy is an egotistical jerk, it's going to be bloody awful.

[MisterLove]

A few more tips: lots of lube and saliva and a good condom are essential. Many guys use poppers but it's not exactly healthy and can lower your blood pressure.

[MisterTinkles]

Make sure you "clean yourself out" plenty first.
Then use LOTS of lube.

Helps if you had a couple of drinks of alcohol first.


Not everybody feels the same about it. Not everybody gets the same sensation from it.