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being cordial.
#1
So to make a story short, there's this guy who pretty much
played with my feelings. He also hurt a close friend of mine by
breaking her and her g/f's 7 year relationship by sleeping with the
girlfriend and in turn the ex-g/f ended up moving in with him overseas
to the U.K.

Fast forward a couple of years. I became real close with the g/f that
got her heart broken up. We've pretty much helped each other up after
the whole thing, and are now better people. We consider the friendship
that came from it a blessing or a silver-lining, cause we probably wouldn't
be this close if it hadn't happen.

Anyways, here's the problem [sort of]. The ex-gf and the guy are back in the
U.S. for a Holiday I think.. And we all pretty much move around in similar
circles and scene. Me and my friend both know that running into them is
inevitable, the guy also tried adding me back again on FB [He already tried
adding/messaging me back several times already].

My friend says she'll be cordial and civil when she runs to her ex. I know with
her it can either go really bad or really good.

With me, it makes my skin crawl when I have to put up a face of plasticity,
although I can do it very well. I just don't like to do it. I already know for a
fact that once he see's me at an event, he'll go out of his way and talk to me.
He's done it before and he'll do it again.

What do you do if you know your going somewhere and you know for a
fact that you'll run into someone that you don't really want to deal with
but you have to..?

Maybe, I'll just take a couple shots of vodka and tell him off. He really
deserves it.. but I'm just too god damned nice.. Even [specially] when I'm
drunk.
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#2
If meeting is inevitable, then evaluate how he's changed or not changed..

depending on what you see, tell him off or remain cordial...nothing to do to erase what he did of course

I for one would advice you to leave him talking by himself if he ever dares talk to you and remain the same guy that he was.

Then again, that's just what I do, after years of training myself to not deal with crap..and not many people can pull it off..

maybe the drinks will help, but if you're not sure you can stop being nice, then, do the small-talk thing and then off with the girl to somewhere else "it's been nice chatting with you, kind sir, but we have pther affairs to attend to now"...or that in whatever slang you people use..
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#3
..yeah, I am playing different scenarios in my head actually and that
one's in my head too.

He'll talk, he's pretty charismatic and charming, as much as that grosses
me out to type, I've gotta give that to him.

But, I think that's the best scenario yet though. Just the silent treatment.
A quick few smiles and a nod and then a swift exit to the left r'something..

I just wish I can tell him off, but I know he's not worth it.
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#4
Stay tuned for the continuing saga in............

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#5
Yeah..

It's probably not a big deal. Shouldn't have posted about it.

..is just giving me a bit on anxiety thinkin' about it.
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#6
justbry87 Wrote:Yeah..

It's probably not a big deal. Shouldn't have posted about it.

..is just giving me a bit on anxiety thinkin' about it.

No, thats ok..........
I was just messing with you!!!
LOL

HerzRoflHerz
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#7
Im sure you,ll find a way to deal with it. Maybe chuck a drink in his face, isnt cordial also a drink!

:p
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