01-04-2014, 01:44 AM
At Christmastime, my boyfriend and I had a long discussion about me being lazy and not liking anything he does and not trying new things. So, I decided that I'd put a real effort into thinking of things we can do together and hobbies we can both have. THis is not as easy as I thought and I'm turning to you guys now for help! I have searched the internet for ideas but things like "make sexytimes a priority this year" and "play games" aren't helping me! I want for us to be able to get along with the things we do like games. I'm bad for being jealous and getting mad when someone is better than me at games, therefore I am a really poor sport! I'm working on this. And I do not want to just have sex all the time. That's not really what I see relationships as. Sure, I love cuddles, hugs, kisses, and sex a lot, but spending time together is one of the most important things in a relationship, in my opinion and we both agree. But it's all on my end! I can't think of things that we could both continually do and have something to talk about. I'm lazy and have not been able to get into the shows (Avatar and Torchwood) he likes and the games we like are one player so we don't really get to play those together!
tl;dr:
I need a hobby for my boyfriend and I to do so we can continue to be happy!
EDIT:
Everyone seems to be upset with me. We talked about it, okay? And we decided that we need to find common ground. This post wasn't to upset anyone! It was to ask you what you guys do so that we can get some ideas! Sure, I could've worded it differently. I'm not the best at wording things! Sorry about that! :/
tl;dr:
I need a hobby for my boyfriend and I to do so we can continue to be happy!
EDIT:
Everyone seems to be upset with me. We talked about it, okay? And we decided that we need to find common ground. This post wasn't to upset anyone! It was to ask you what you guys do so that we can get some ideas! Sure, I could've worded it differently. I'm not the best at wording things! Sorry about that! :/