My mother just called

[Evan88]

That is okay Dale... I don't think it matters at this point...

Hence, she will not like the truth... You are not lying or anything. It's just that, it is not needed to tell her anything about your sexuality since based on your stories she is quite homophobic..and you have a distant relationship with her

And...You are like out to everyone, to people who appreciate you for being YOU (like me)..that's what matters the most..

[elad12]

Thanks! It was great to read your responses and I can't dis agree with any of them. I am always so happy when I read or hear others coming out stories and they are happy ones. Well, mine is a happy one too, because I have chosen who to tell and who not to. No I won't be telling her unless she asks me which she would never do. One thing about my mother, she never asks a question that might have an answer she doesn't want to hear. She's smart in that way

[CellarDweller]

Hello Elad, Sorry to hear about your mother's reaction to your teasing. I think you are right to keep this from her, she doesn't seem capable of handling it in a reasonable manner. My maternal grandparents never knew, at my mother's request. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters.