Boyfriend of 4 years, but I'm not happy

[southbiochem]

He needs a kind of help that you can't provide.

You need to leave and rid yourself of this, but be sure to make someone close to him know!

An intervention is higgly necessary here. He needs professional help.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Well come back in a year and two and tell us how this turned out for you.... Good luck on that single life.

Understand if you are going to d the break up you really, really, really need to take a year from the dating scene. Don't do rebound. Seriously its worse fire ants.

Take a year off of dating and discover who 'me' (meaning you) is. Rebound relationships usually tank in epic ways...

Again, good luck. I hope this works out for you.