I Am Lost: Need Answers

[Bob]

Sounds to me like he is aware of his sexuality but he can't manage to juggle it somehow. Like for example, he feels guilty for commiting gay sexual acts perhaps? I'm not sure, but the whole issue about 'he use to have sex with girls' suggests to me that he's not entirely comfortable being gay just yet.

I would avoid for a while, until he does the explaining...

Bob
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