I dated a guy who was probably just about the same size as you - and size didn't bother me at all. What did bother me was his constant obsessing about it, which included questions about every other guy I'd ever slept with and constantly being told that he knew I was dissatisfied and would rather be with some random dude with a king-kong appendage.
Be who you are, don't agonize or apologize about something you can't control. Any guy who's worth your time is going to be looking for more than just penis size.
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I just love penis, I find it beautiful, so whatever size I am happy. <3
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Porn has traumatised a huge amount of guys when it comes to size. When I was a teenager and watching a lot of porn, I was convinced I had a small one. Seeing huge dicks in both straight and gay porn (yeah I was mixing it up even then) made me feel kind of inadequate. I became obsessively paranoid about it cos I really thought I was too small to satisfy anyone. It took me years to get comfortable with my own member, and that was largely through fooling around (with girls at the time) and I discovered I didn't have anything to worry about. Yeah, it's not a telegraph pole, but most guys aren't hung like stallions. People who judge you on the size of your member probably aren't worth knowing, just as guys who rates women on breast size, are fools. Love makes it irrelevant, at least in my experience. This culture of the perfect body is rotting our souls.
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I once hooked up with a guy who had an average penis, but enormous balls. And when I say enormous, I'm talking to softball sized nuts packed into a scrotum that was stretched to its maximum, such that it appeared as tho he had one gigantic ball. I thought something was wrong with him, like an injury, but he explained that it runs in his family, and that both his father and brother had similar enormous testicles. I found it to be bizarre, but I just went with it and got him off. I was expecting a massive, fire-hose of a load since each of his balls was the size of my first, but it was just on the high side of average volume.
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Lol! I kept on hearing that sex is not everything! I think it takes a big part on the relationship. And by the way size does matter.
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