Am I overthinking?
04-26-2014, 03:57 AM
Okay, I met a guy 2 months ago. In the entire month, I only seen him twice. We talked only twice due to the fact that when we hang out we're always dragged away by other people. However, he was always the one who initiate the convo. Anyways, a week ago, he added me on Facebook. He started liking some photo of mine, and liked a post of mine that I deleted straight away (because I realized it was really juvenile and lame). It was then that I feel like he was interested on me, and things just gets confusing from here on.
We talked the next day on facebook to 3am... And we talked a bit the following day till the big hangout on Thursday. Basically, on Thursday, we were just sticking together the whole time and chatting with each other (btw, he's friends with everyone in the group). Then at a certain place, everyone was sitting at one side of the table leaving me to sit on the other side. He just came and sat with me even though he was sitting on the other side first, which I thought was pretty sweet. Then when I moved to the other side, he followed me. Anyway, after that, the group wanted to go dinner but I wanted to go home, so I told him I'm just going to leave now. He then told me he wants to leave as well which surprised me a little because I remember him saying he wanted to eat with the group (in the beginning before the event). I asked him why, and he said he wants to go home early, and I was like okay.
Then when we left the group, but instead of going home, we went to a simple fast food outlet and talked for 2 hours about each other's history. I then asked him I thought you need to go home early, and he smiled and told me he doesn't have a curfew, and that the reason he left was because he doesn't like 1 person in the group. I was ok... He also asked me to hangout with him on Tuesday for an event. Then we finally decided to go home because it WAS getting really late, so I took him to his station, and then he asked for a goodbye hug, and we hugged. Then we chatted again after we got home.
Anyway, am I over thinking this? Is he actually interested in me or is he just extremely nice. There's just so many things like: talking to 3am, liking a post that I deleted after posting for 1 min, sticking with me the entire time of the hangout, leaving with me, chatting for 2 hours, the hug, etc...
We talked the next day on facebook to 3am... And we talked a bit the following day till the big hangout on Thursday. Basically, on Thursday, we were just sticking together the whole time and chatting with each other (btw, he's friends with everyone in the group). Then at a certain place, everyone was sitting at one side of the table leaving me to sit on the other side. He just came and sat with me even though he was sitting on the other side first, which I thought was pretty sweet. Then when I moved to the other side, he followed me. Anyway, after that, the group wanted to go dinner but I wanted to go home, so I told him I'm just going to leave now. He then told me he wants to leave as well which surprised me a little because I remember him saying he wanted to eat with the group (in the beginning before the event). I asked him why, and he said he wants to go home early, and I was like okay.
Then when we left the group, but instead of going home, we went to a simple fast food outlet and talked for 2 hours about each other's history. I then asked him I thought you need to go home early, and he smiled and told me he doesn't have a curfew, and that the reason he left was because he doesn't like 1 person in the group. I was ok... He also asked me to hangout with him on Tuesday for an event. Then we finally decided to go home because it WAS getting really late, so I took him to his station, and then he asked for a goodbye hug, and we hugged. Then we chatted again after we got home.
Anyway, am I over thinking this? Is he actually interested in me or is he just extremely nice. There's just so many things like: talking to 3am, liking a post that I deleted after posting for 1 min, sticking with me the entire time of the hangout, leaving with me, chatting for 2 hours, the hug, etc...
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