Wanting to date another guy younger then me

[Leeds]

Hi
Im in a relationship with a lovely guy but I wanna date a younger lad 16+ but I know I can't can anyone help me out please

Thanks Leeds

[Wolfpack]

So you are in a relationship with a guy you are happy with, is it really worth losing that for to try something with a younger guy when it may not turn out to be what you expect or want after all.

what ever you decide to do, you owe it to your bf to honest and open with him. I am sure you do not want to hurt him, but if you go behind his back that is exactly what you will be doing.

[ChadCoxRox]

This thread is creepy.

[Charon]

I must say that at your tender age wishing to date someone a lot younger is rather unusual. In your middle twenties you're what older men consider "younger" to be and might wish to date you. I'll not forget your current whatever he is, we'll get back to him. I notice that you don't seem to have any particular 16 year old, just be in that age bracket and you qualify. If you were fifty, and you're not, I would think you were going through andropaus and, in addition to getting a tattoo and buying a Porsche, you now want a trophy boyfriend....but you're not fifty. Have you ever even had a modest date with a 16 year old? Did you notice that their conversation didn't really hold up unless you spoke to them only through an I phone and then, preferably, only about their favourite tune, singer, team etc. Don't ask their name or pertinent statistics, they'll go blank. And should you succeed in seducing them, you may find them only vaguely aware that they're on their face on wherever you happen to be...and still electronically hooked up to their "tunes". You may begin to wish, as you pump away, that little boys really were made of "snips and snails and puppy dog tails" instead of insipidity which is what you've got.

Now let us turn the object of your lack of affection, your current boy friend/lover/partner bromancer, however you describe him. A suggestion, don't "share" with him this newly found desire of yours, he may wallop you-which I quite believe he's entitled to do-and spread the word that your nothing but a (fill in the blank.) And, when you appear with your child tart, you will verify anything nasty your previous inamorata said about you. There's no polite way to get out of this without revealing just why he's being asked to hit the road; If you're lucky, he's already got someone else warming up waiting to get into the scrum but that's only if you're lucky. Try and find someone for him, preferably someone a lot better than you and a lot more faithful. Find him his own form of arm candy-drop by a gym, find a weightlifter who is drop dead gorgeous, offer him 50 quid to go on a date with a friend of yours. You never know, this might work and, under any circumstances you ex-and that's what he'll be-will feel real good about himself and wonder what he saw in you?
One last thing. Once you've captured your 16 year old, invite him and his family to a dinner. Call them Mum and Dad. Tell them something I bet they didn't know. Bon Chance!

[Brett240]

What they said --- especially the creepy part lol -

[Jake]

Charron put it so beautifully that there's pretty much nothing to be add but I do have a question? What the hell is up with you people looking to date children. They are unexperimented, they have serious lack of attention span, they are just starting their life and many of them are pennyless, and even if they have money, where can you bring them? They can't go to bar, can't drink alcohol and if you provide alcohol or cigarettes to a 16 years old it's a criminal offense. Let the kids be among themselves. Yes I know when you watch so many porn movies from studio such as Boycrush and Helix studios you tend to believe that all teens are sexually advanced and fuck for morning to evening. Well here's a biological fact for you... they are not even close to have the sexual stamina that a 30 years old man would have, men get their highest sexual peak at age 25 up to age 45 and sometimes beyond that point. Oh and last thing, those little porn stars that you may be interested in and perhaps prone you to be attracted to younger boy, they are directed. Unless you want to play the teacher, you're not actually going to get what you've seen in movie.

Let them play with their iPhone, iPad and let them grow up... The grass always seems greener elsewhere.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

I give you my permission.

Heck, nothing bad will happen to me. Go, do as thou wilt.

[ddd]

You are 25 years old. You are about to enter another phase in your life. I don't think a 16 years old could be proper for someone in his mid twenties. Teenagers are still growing not only physically but mentally and they are far away from settling down emotionally. A 16 years old could change his mind very often and this could be very frustrating for you. And honestly I don't think your boyfriend would be happy with your desire for younger guys. If you love him try to fight these feelings. Otherwise you will end up disappointed and alone.

[HumbleTangerine]

This is disturbing. It would be a lot less disturbing if you were actually in love with a 16 year old, but that you've decided before-hand that that's the age you're going for. WHILST IN A RELATIONSHIP.

I would sit down and clearly think through my priorities if I were you.

[Freak]

There are two options:

1. You close the current relationship and get a young boy of your dream

2. You shut your lust and be loyal