What's on Your Mind

[Bluelight]

(Adam) Ah, a fellow insomniac. Finding a way to get some sleep is usually high up on the list of what's on my mind...

And guess what's happening again tonight? Summer sleep cycle...

[tanaho]

I met a gay friend via skype and said I wanted to make friendship via facebook . But he didn't reply me although he was the one contacted first . I am wondering why

[CellarDweller]

that I don't want to go back to work.

[East]

I hate that I am putting so much of my happiness/"spirit" (or lack thereof) on having a "career" and figuring myself out professionally. It has been a great source of stress and discontent in my life the past few years.

Maybe I'm just expecting too much out of myself. I have friends and acquaintances who are doing jobs they just "fell into", jobs that are just "jobs"...etc.
I don't know if I should just go with whatever I can land and make a decent living doing instead of trying to find to chase after something that makes me feel "fulfilled". This entire saga is getting so old now that i even hate talking to my partner and friends about it. I hate feeling like a whining man. I just keep my feelings bottled up inside.

It's funny--I feel so confident and "together" in every other aspect of my life, but professionally...I'm so lost. It's a shame.

It shouldn't be this hard.

I think what you are experiencing is normal and I have to ask...if you changed locales would there be more opportunities?

[50Plus]

I hate that I am putting so much of my happiness/"spirit" (or lack thereof) on having a "career" and figuring myself out professionally. It has been a great source of stress and discontent in my life the past few years.

Maybe I'm just expecting too much out of myself. I have friends and acquaintances who are doing jobs they just "fell into", jobs that are just "jobs"...etc.
I don't know if I should just go with whatever I can land and make a decent living doing instead of trying to find to chase after something that makes me feel "fulfilled". This entire saga is getting so old now that i even hate talking to my partner and friends about it. I hate feeling like a whining man. I just keep my feelings bottled up inside.

It's funny--I feel so confident and "together" in every other aspect of my life, but professionally...I'm so lost. It's a shame.

It shouldn't be this hard.

Okay, have you considered the Minimalist approach to life?

East mentioned that your feelings are normal. That is true. What is also true, is that they do not have to be. One can change and follow a different path in life. We all have the choice as to what we wish to achieve / accomplish / pursue in life. How do you define success?

[yesterday]

a lot is on my mind

[Wolfpack]

that I don't want to go back to work.

Get back to work lazy :p

[Wolfpack]

a lot is on my mind

You can with us on here about anything that you feel able to.

[yesterday]

life ???? lol !!!

[yesterday]

so to use the private chat feature and get privileges how much do i need to post ?