Sexiness vs Handsomeness

[East]

I don't really let anyone define beauty for me so sexy leads me to the door every time. When I like a guys' vibe and his attitude he becomes sexy...and beautiful by default. Through my eyes...the guy has to do something more than "look good" for me to see him as beautiful... or even sexy.

[dudewithabeard]

Sexiness I guess, but IMO what really matters is what is on the inside , after all looks fade eventually, somebody's good personality is forever.

What's on the inside can make someone beautiful no matter what's on the inside. However a good personality is not always forever, some good people can become awfully jaded and bitter. What sucks if it's because their looks faded so then you have to wonder were they every truly beautiful on the inside.

[East]

What's on the inside can make someone beautiful no matter what's on the inside. However a good personality is not always forever, some good people can become awfully jaded and bitter. What sucks if it's because their looks faded so then you have to wonder were they every truly beautiful on the inside.

I think beauty on the inside is often as subjective as beauty on the outside.

[dudewithabeard]

I think beauty on the inside is often as subjective as beauty on the outside.

I think may be true but there are instances where I question someone's sanity if they don't view someone like Mother Theresa as beautiful on the inside.

[East]

I think may be true but there are instances where I question someone's sanity if they don't view someone like Mother Theresa as beautiful on the inside.

Yeah...that's true...I think there is a "safe list" of people who most everyone could agree are beautiful on the inside...Mother Theresa certainly qualifies.

[dudewithabeard]

Yeah...that's true...I think there is a "safe list" of people who most everyone could agree are beautiful on the inside...Mother Theresa certainly qualifies.

If only we had a billion more people with the character she had.



sidenote.. I hit "thanks" on your comment because I liked it but then it felt like I was thanking you for agreeing with me, so I decided I had to make a post.. lol

[Kha]

actually I think being sexy is somehow a kind of beauty already

[dudewithabeard]

lol, I just realized, or re-realized, that the thread is about sexy vs handsome.. oops....

so on topic, handsome is something that is more classic and clean.. sexy is not bound by those guidlines as it has more to do with how someone's attitude.. a conceited and narcissistic dudewithabeard would agree that I would fit more under the sexy category because of my attitude and how I carry myself but not so much the handsome, because I do not fit the standard.

edit: clean might not have been the right word, a crisp clean-cut appearance might fit better

[Person66]

handsomeness is looks, while sexiness is attitude.

That's true but you can't be all that sexy if you gave no good looks.
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[meninlove]

That's true but you can't be all that sexy if you have no good looks.
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Experience has taught me otherwise. *winks warmly*