Done with it. All of it.

[Uneunsae]

Yeah, I'm hurt be rejection after rejection but I'm not ready to give up yet, either. With each relationship I've learned more about myself and others so eventually, when I meet the right guy, I will be a better partner.

I know how bad it hurts, though. I haven't dated in four years and I'm very lonely ATM.

[AlfredM]

I only started putting myself out there this year,and it's almost impossible to find a gay man in settings other than apps/bars/clubs/sauna, unless you count fem gays,which I'm not attracted to but happy to befriend with. I'm not putting much hope though,cause I'm planning to migrate soon,so even if I do get into a relationship here,I don't think it will last. =/

[Uneunsae]

Haha, I'm so femme, but nice to know that we could be friends.

[AlfredM]

Haha, I'm so femme, but nice to know that we could be friends.

Haha,fem guys are fun you know,and I myself am a bit fem,so I tend to 'embrace' my fem side when I'm around my fem gay friends. :biggrin:

[TwisttheLeaf]

It was when I was at my least interested in dating that I found Gideon.

Nothing wrong with feeling like you've had enough and the frustration gets to you yeah?

Nothing wrong with accepting that at some point you'll -want- something meaningful either.

[EvenOlderButWiser]

The old saying that you have to kiss a few frogs before finding your Prince Charming is as true now as it ever was, regardless of your sexuality.



ObW
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[artyboy]

Try being disabled to like me, I'll just have to keep going to I find someone I guess.

[AlfredM]

Well,I'm taking a break too now,for something that's not even as close as what you got. LOL.

[Borg69]

Maybe you're trying too hard. Get to know these guys before you jump into a committed relationship with them. So many times I see these guys who are so desperate for a relationship they don't take the time to get a good look at whom it is they're with - Like the relationship is more important than the guy they're with. People put more effort into applying for a job or buying a car than they put into picking out a boyfriend these days... I don't get it.

Check their resume. Kick the tires. Check their references. Take 'em for a test drive.

Have some standards, but not SO high that no one can apply, but not so low that you're consumed with weeding out the trash.

[supasyd]

love will hurt you many times before it blesses you. (that sounds pretty cool - I should write that down).