well, not only just very personal but some believe that the individual creates their own world - allowing energies in and out... kind of like a dream where if you get good you can control everything in your dream... but some believe it can be done in the real physical world...
I guess to some point I find this true
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I for 1 would like to find someone to have a relationship with but will judge each situation as it comes along lol
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For me its got to be a relationship, had my share of one night stands in my twenties and they just left me cold. Definately like the idea of being in somthing more permenant.
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committed relationship would be what I want really but a shag buddy would fun lol!
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I am married (almost one year), however my life partner and I do not engage in sex as he is HIV positive and prefers not too because of the risk. I wish to have a regular sex partner and best friend as I will not and never did cruise the bars, etc. Is there anything wrong with that?
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I think all the options on offer are fine, depending on where you're at in your life. I wouldn't have wanted a committed relationship before trying the others first. I don't really understand how people can want the commitment with a person they have never had a one-night stand with, if you understand my drift. I'm in a monogamous relationship with the man I love now but we went through the stages of 1. a one night stand. 2. an open relationship and 3. committed monogamy. He ought to be committed for putting up with me! lol
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