Your first time having sex of any kind

[MRossW]

20 years old with a female, thinking the entire time, "One of us must be doing this wrong because this is really boring."

[Virge]

My 1st sex was at 15 with my best friend's 20 yr old sister.
My 1st with a guy was at 18 with the friend above the night before I left for the marines. Still wasn't sure I was gay.
Then at 21 in Australia saw a fine guy and thought "I am going to go so damned gay to get a piece of that" and did. We talked all day on the beach and after dark went out in the water to a sand bar with his surfboard. That was my first time to penetrate a guy --- no lube --- I pushed him around lying on his back on his surfboard taking my time cuz I figured once I was done with him I'd never want to see him again.
It's been 4 years and 10 months and I can't get rid of him now.

[gayronalabama]

I was 12 the first time---he was 13. He had a playboy and was looking at it---whipped out his member and started jackingoff. i thought what the hell and joined him, before i knew it, i was giving him a blow job---three days later i took his member up the boypussy. been hooked ever since. NO regrets,
I have never had sex with a woman and never will.

[Wade]

Of ANY kind? Are you sure?

Alright then...

I guess it was during the Summer when I was eleven. My family took a trip to the local pool and while swimming alone along the side I discovered that whoosy air jet thing that was placed just so. I became a man that day, and yes BlueStar... it was beautiful indeed. I still think about that air jet, when the night is cool and and there's no one keeping me company other than the sound of the cicadas chirping a lover's coo.... or when turning on a water facet.

[72jay]

1st time having sex of Any kind ?
um.....
Never.

[GuyOverThere]

So I finally met a guy (online,not in real life yet),and we talked and kind of became friends,except of course,we're interested in getting in each other's pants. He said he doesn't do random sex anymore and tries to get to know his partner first before hooking up. That sounds like a safe practice to me.

Is it? Don't believe anything any guy tells you, unless he's regularly being tested.

IMO, virginity is something precious. It's something which should be lost with that person that makes your world complete. You're certainly worth more than a quick shag in some revolting public toilet.

It doesn't sound at all like you're ready, either. Focus on the more important things in your life right now. You'll meet that special person some time soon, and you'll just know that the time is right.

[hasher22]

25 and living with parents is normal these days. I wouldn't do it in the toilets for my first time. Your first time needs to be well quite special. I suggest you find another guy to like to loose your virginity to, mine wasn't so special. You might regret it in the future because it's a milestone in your life.

My first time was when I was 22, In my own home. I moved out when I was 17, though I liked his looks not his personality. Just did it because it was in the moment, and I kind of regret loosing it to him.

Was I comfortable about the sexual encounter? Yes. Why? Because I've been practicing on a vibrator and been watching porn and copying their moves. Maybe you should invest in a play toy before finding that right person.

I know you like the guy, but wait for a more comfortable situation. Don't rush, people are 30 and are still virgins. Your time will come.

[AlfredM]

Of ANY kind? Are you sure?

Alright then...

I guess it was during the Summer when I was eleven. My family took a trip to the local pool and while swimming alone along the side I discovered that whoosy air jet thing that was placed just so. I became a man that day, and yes BlueStar... it was beautiful indeed. I still think about that air jet, when the night is cool and and there's no one keeping me company other than the sound of the cicadas chirping a lover's coo.... or when turning on a water facet.

I still have a hard time imagining what kind of sex did you do with that air jet! :O But sounds like a great memory man~ :tongue:

Is it? Don't believe anything any guy tells you, unless he's regularly being tested.

IMO, virginity is something precious. It's something which should be lost with that person that makes your world complete. You're certainly worth more than a quick shag in some revolting public toilet.

It doesn't sound at all like you're ready, either. Focus on the more important things in your life right now. You'll meet that special person some time soon, and you'll just know that the time is right.

He is regularly tested. I do believe virginity is precious,which is why I'm not gonna lose it to someone who don't even kiss and just want a quickie in a toilet

[Robben]

I like to make out with men since I feel it can lead somewhere. My first time undressing was in a stairwell in an LGBT Community Center I blew him, but something told me I should stop. Once we get used to our bodies it is amazing how much more attractive we can be to other guys, and how we can be attracted to more men than we were before.

[Aike]

My first time...

...never happened! :eek:

In fact, I've yet to receive my first kiss (no, the time when my drunken straight friend decided to give a round of kisses to his friends in a bar doesn't count!) I'm so virginal I could join a nunnery. Let's hope they have a good stash of gay porn.