06-13-2014, 07:49 PM
I like forums because they're great places to stay up on ideas and find other opinions worth reading about.
I don't like forums because there always seems to be someone wanting to prove just how big of a jerk they can be byt saying everything they can to hurt and anger others.
So I'm here on a trial basis checking things out. I like the rules here. WARNING anyone contacting me for crotch pix or cam will be on my permanent shit list.
One other thing to help you understand me. I'm 26 and moved back to my home area after some time in the military. I'm in a tiny tiny town with only seven gay adults ( all over 45) I know of and maybe a dozen in high school here. I like it here because no one worries about whether someone is gay or straight. Most of the people I hang out with are straight. The older gays and I don't associate much because they have their own sets of friends and I have mine. We gays here all acknowledge we have little or nothing in common but the "gay" label and we're fine with it.
My boyfriend of 5 yrs goes to school and lives in a city of over 2 million people and finishes this winter. In his city there's got to be over 3 dozen gay bars. When he's done with school he's decided to move here ---- to a town of 1500, 6 hours from the nearest gay bar ---- because he likes the people (my friends) better than is and they like him as if he's 'just one of us locals.'
So you can understand I'm a bit out of place in gay situations most guys take for granted. I'm not a jealous or violent guy but the first time I was in a gay bar with my BF and saw a guy grope him I pretty much came unglued ----------- but not because I was jealous but because to me that was just so damned rude to the man I happen to do my best never to be rude to. But I was nice about it. I stapled the guys arm back on his shoulder and apologized for beating him with it. hahhahaha!
Just try to remember not all gay people are the same.
I don't like forums because there always seems to be someone wanting to prove just how big of a jerk they can be byt saying everything they can to hurt and anger others.
So I'm here on a trial basis checking things out. I like the rules here. WARNING anyone contacting me for crotch pix or cam will be on my permanent shit list.
One other thing to help you understand me. I'm 26 and moved back to my home area after some time in the military. I'm in a tiny tiny town with only seven gay adults ( all over 45) I know of and maybe a dozen in high school here. I like it here because no one worries about whether someone is gay or straight. Most of the people I hang out with are straight. The older gays and I don't associate much because they have their own sets of friends and I have mine. We gays here all acknowledge we have little or nothing in common but the "gay" label and we're fine with it.
My boyfriend of 5 yrs goes to school and lives in a city of over 2 million people and finishes this winter. In his city there's got to be over 3 dozen gay bars. When he's done with school he's decided to move here ---- to a town of 1500, 6 hours from the nearest gay bar ---- because he likes the people (my friends) better than is and they like him as if he's 'just one of us locals.'
So you can understand I'm a bit out of place in gay situations most guys take for granted. I'm not a jealous or violent guy but the first time I was in a gay bar with my BF and saw a guy grope him I pretty much came unglued ----------- but not because I was jealous but because to me that was just so damned rude to the man I happen to do my best never to be rude to. But I was nice about it. I stapled the guys arm back on his shoulder and apologized for beating him with it. hahhahaha!
Just try to remember not all gay people are the same.
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