Thanks for some great advice...

[Adam]

So I had posted before about being upset when my BF deleted my account here and about his control issues in general. I just want to say Thank You to the people who urged us to see a therapist. We're doing that and she's awesome! I wish we had done it a long time ago. She's helping him to realize that he can be overly controlling/protective at times - and helping me to see that I often become overly defiant in response, to the extent of not doing something I want to do because he tells me to do it. We both feel comfortable with her, and I feel like she's bringing us closer. We've been together for 6 years and we feel like the therapy is helping us define and strengthen our determination to make this work.
So thanks from both of us for some great advice!

[Iceblink]

Happy for you, Adam! Sometimes it takes a neutral, outside voice like that of a therapist to see help you see your relationship more clearly.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

As I said on the other thread, I sense a great compatibility between you two.

After you have done sessions for a while and think you are done with it, do consider to occasionally get a tune up now and then.

[ChadCoxRox]

Great news! Hope you'll remain connected here at GS!! We need your support too!

[TwisttheLeaf]

Congratulations man. I'm very happy to hear the good news.

[AlohaShannon]

As I said on the other thread, I sense a great compatibility between you two.

After you have done sessions for a while and think you are done with it, do consider to occasionally get a tune up now and then.

I couldn't agree with Bowyn more. Tune ups are great ways to keep the communication open and honest. Great work!

[East]

I am very happy for the both of you and I hope you both have a much better relationship now and in the future...therapy is a great tool

[CellarDweller]

great news!

[ETOTE]

Hi Adam!

Glad therapy is working for your relationship.
Otherwise, being new here and all, pretty much in the dark about all the drama and other stuff, m'kay...

[Cuddly]

That sounds awesome! Maybe the husbear and I should try that.