07-01-2014, 09:01 PM
I'm living in the same house with homophobic man who doesn't leave me alone. He's quite young, , maybe about 30 or something, and he's so hateful towards gays and/or especially me. I'm living in the third floor and he lives in the fourth.
The house is big and I don't really know my neighbors very well, sometimes we say hi each to other, but nothing more. Once I gave a kiss on the cheek to the guy I spent night with and he happened to see it. He said "that's exactly what we needed - fa*got in the house". Since that day he doesn't leave me alone. When we meet each other on the stairs, he can never pass me without saying anything. For some reason he's always in the stairs when I leave my flat in the morning and he always says something stupid like "did you sit on many cocks last night?" or "your ass will be soon so wide you won't be able to hold your s*it in, you'll need diaper". When I come down the stairs, he says "don't even look at my butt, it'll never be for you". He even said that if there wouldn't be other people in this house, he'd set my flat on fire in the night.
Then there was this one day when I was at home, waiting for my friend to visit me and when she came, she showed me note that she said was taped to my front door. The note said "free blow*obs". Then some other day I came home from job and there was another note saying "f*ggot lives here". Of course, these notes are printed on the computer.
Some will probably advise me to go to the police. I tried it. I told them everything about his behavior, about that he's threatening me and bothering me to live. However they said that it is said in the law that they can press charges against him only when he actually does something. Until he hasn't done anything to me, his words are just that - words, he has rights to speak what he wants. So I guess police isn't an option for me. I'm from Ireland, I guess laws are different here than in the USA.
I don't know what to do. I also tried to confront him and just ask him "why? why are you doing this?" He said that he'll make me to move out, before I infect everyone in the house with my gay virus. He thinks I'd like to f*ck every man in this house. I don't know to convince him to leave me alone, how to show him that I'm not a threat to anyone and don't need just any man. I like this house, it's located very well, close to my job also. I wouldn't want to move out just because of him.
The house is big and I don't really know my neighbors very well, sometimes we say hi each to other, but nothing more. Once I gave a kiss on the cheek to the guy I spent night with and he happened to see it. He said "that's exactly what we needed - fa*got in the house". Since that day he doesn't leave me alone. When we meet each other on the stairs, he can never pass me without saying anything. For some reason he's always in the stairs when I leave my flat in the morning and he always says something stupid like "did you sit on many cocks last night?" or "your ass will be soon so wide you won't be able to hold your s*it in, you'll need diaper". When I come down the stairs, he says "don't even look at my butt, it'll never be for you". He even said that if there wouldn't be other people in this house, he'd set my flat on fire in the night.
Then there was this one day when I was at home, waiting for my friend to visit me and when she came, she showed me note that she said was taped to my front door. The note said "free blow*obs". Then some other day I came home from job and there was another note saying "f*ggot lives here". Of course, these notes are printed on the computer.
Some will probably advise me to go to the police. I tried it. I told them everything about his behavior, about that he's threatening me and bothering me to live. However they said that it is said in the law that they can press charges against him only when he actually does something. Until he hasn't done anything to me, his words are just that - words, he has rights to speak what he wants. So I guess police isn't an option for me. I'm from Ireland, I guess laws are different here than in the USA.
I don't know what to do. I also tried to confront him and just ask him "why? why are you doing this?" He said that he'll make me to move out, before I infect everyone in the house with my gay virus. He thinks I'd like to f*ck every man in this house. I don't know to convince him to leave me alone, how to show him that I'm not a threat to anyone and don't need just any man. I like this house, it's located very well, close to my job also. I wouldn't want to move out just because of him.