12-27-2014, 09:41 PM
The problem is that my younger brother doesn't want to live together with me while our mother will be away. Our family situation is quite complicated, we only have a mother, father left us when my brother was born. Now a good job chance has been offered to our mum but that means she'll have to travel abroad for about a year. My brother is 15 years old now ( I'm 30) and legally he cannot stay alone, someone has to take care of him. I live together with my boyfriend, our place is large and there would definitely be more than enough place for one more person and my boyfriend is willing to welcome him. However my brother categorically refuses to come and live with me.
Maybe the thing is that he's quite homophobic and when he found out I'm gay our relationships changed to the bad side. He says a lot of things - that he'd rather live on the streets than together with queers, that he doesn't want to see us licking each other's mouth or hear us f*cking. He even asked mum to leave him in some orphanage so that he wouldn't have to live with me. Of course, no one would do that. My mum is very liberal and has nothing against my being gay and she has tried several times to reason with him but useless. We don't know what to do with him. He's very stubborn and unfortunately we don't have any other relatives.
Maybe the thing is that he's quite homophobic and when he found out I'm gay our relationships changed to the bad side. He says a lot of things - that he'd rather live on the streets than together with queers, that he doesn't want to see us licking each other's mouth or hear us f*cking. He even asked mum to leave him in some orphanage so that he wouldn't have to live with me. Of course, no one would do that. My mum is very liberal and has nothing against my being gay and she has tried several times to reason with him but useless. We don't know what to do with him. He's very stubborn and unfortunately we don't have any other relatives.