Hey Memechose,
Yeah, I'm not into Lady ga ga either
I have a lot or straight friends and Gay friends.
Work boots for the job site. I do like women also. (more into the guys now a days)
You couldn't tell what I was if you talked to me. Well,
Maybe your Bi--- but more on the gay side now a days
JimmyEcho Wrote:Hey Memechose,
Yeah, I'm not into Lady ga ga either
I have a lot or straight friends and Gay friends.
Work boots for the job site. I do like women also. (more into the guys now a days)
You couldn't tell what I was if you talked to me. Well,
Maybe your Bi--- but more on the gay side now a days
The extent of my self labeling is "I'm a guy in love with a guy." That goes back to what Iceblink said about labels needed for everyday conversation. If I tell people my label for myself everyone gives me the "HUH?" I've learned just to keep it simple for conversation's sake.... and leave it at that until I know someone better.
TwisttheLeaf Wrote:Okay so.... I'm going to quote something that Uneunsae said in a different thread.
Homosexuality and gay are the same thing. The terms are interchangeable. They fall under sexual orientation and deal with who you are attracted to. Whether or not you're having sex really has no bearing on this. It's about attraction, not literally what you put your dick into (or if you are or not).
"Gay Lifestyle" is different for everyone depending on your location and the friends you hang out with. There are plenty of straight men (and women) who enjoy immersing themselves in this lifestyle with their gay friends, but aren't attracted to same sex options themselves. This does not make them gay or homosexual, it just means they enjoy hanging out with friends that are.
Just as there are straight men and women who enjoy immersing themselves in the "societal clique" of their gay friends. So too are there plenty of gay people out there who you would -never guess- in a million years are gay. And others who maybe you would, but that don't participate in the "societal clique" type of gay behavior you're referring to.
lol, no wonder I like you so much. We're on the same page.
Here in Canada gay simply meant and means you are solely same sex attracted, up to and including LOVE. Gigantic love. A friend and I on another site started a page he titled, 'homoloveual'.
As for the OP...you're straight. It's all good.
Some consider "gay" to be a lifestyle. My straight guy friends for example, they know that I'm gay, but I don't think that they think of me as being "gay" because my behavior doesn't really fit that description as they know it. To them, I'm just me, and my attraction to guys is just part of the me that they know.
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thats a good one
