Oral sex for the first time-how?

[Anonymous]

So the thing is that I'm about to give oral sex to my boyfriend. I've never done it before and I'm quite worried I won't be good at all. We're together for 4 months and haven't done anything more then kissing, he's 21 years old, I'm 18. He helped me to accept I'm gay and he's the most wonderful guy on the whole planet, no one's boyfriend is as good as mine.

He doesn't force me and he has never asked sex from me, however I can feel he wants it. Soon he'll have his birthday and I thought that besides all the other things I'll give him as gifts, I might him a little intimate gift - oral sex. I've watched porn actors doing it and it seems that they're all teeth-less, otherwise I don't know how can one take penis in mouth so deep without scratching it with teeth.

I'm afraid I won't know what to do. How to actually do it, how to start, etc? I want to make him happy and I want to make him feel good, but I'm worried I might give him nothing but pain because of my inefficiency.

[TwisttheLeaf]

With the concern about teeth? It's all about angle. And if he's experienced, then he'll be able to help you with that if you need it. (Hands on the head and a tilt is about all you need to get the angle right. My first time with oral, that's essentially how I was taught. He gave some guidance with his hands on my head and made sure I knew what felt good and what didn't.)

Nobody expects you to be perfect at it first time out the gate, man. And if he knows you're inexperienced? Chances are he's going to be more than happy to help you with your education once you show an interest in learning.

If you're concerned he won't? Remind him just before you put your mouth on his dick that it's your first time and that you might need a little guidance to get it right.

[Anonymous]

He knows I'm virgin in everything that's connected with sex. He says that it's ok and that he understands but maybe he won't after I harm him....

[TwisttheLeaf]

Just relax, yeah? Do you scrape your teeth when you eat a popcycle?

An accidental scrape or two isn't going to probably be a huge deal man. Promise. Especially if he's the understanding sort.

[Bluelight]

Proceed with care. Teeth are the worst...

[EvenOlderButWiser]

Just don't bite and he'll be fine

ObW
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[saif1232]

Erm, as for your teeth, get something shaped like a penis I guess, n as much as this sounds silly, try sucking it. LOL its pretty much the same , as twisted said, its the angle . And as for anal, he might know your a virgin, but make sure you get him to proceed slow and not just penetrate you, plenty of lube (assuming your the bot). A good way to approaching this is asking him about his first time and seeing what he says, and thatll get him thinking of how he can make it gentle and easier for you

[Charon]

Keep in mind that isn't a one gulp and out situation. Start slowly lick his cock, play with his cock head, perhaps just put your lips over that then go back to playing with his cock with your tongue and mouth. Back to the top, go down a bit further, add a bit of suck, use your tongue, the idea is to get him hot and that doesn't happen immediately. One hopes you've been making out, some major petting. Remember when your working on his cock, your fingers can play with his balls and do not forget his perineum; pressure there is equivalent to partially jacking him off. Slide slowly down him, make sure You're comfortable, the moment you're not pull back and just use the tongue on his cock head. No one expects you to be a whizz at first, but an honest effort will be appreciated. Talk things over with your partner, get his input, find what he likes, there are all sorts of ways to give a blow job, learning one leads to variations and, if you're with the same guy perhaps he can demonstrate on you so you can see what it feels like. Learn the best of passive oral activities, the 69; It's intimate, says I care and doesn't require both of you to be gymnasts or perfect at all things the first time. Hope you've found a good guy, certainly his patience speaks well for him. Good Luck!!

[JimmyEcho]

Don't worry dude
Your doing your best and your trying hard not to scrape, that's fine.
You'll get better over time, (Believe me I know)
He will always tap you on the shoulder or head and say Teeth, and then you correct yourself and get better at it. (it's all good)

[polfsky]

I think he'll feel all the more special knowing that he's your first.