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How to get a boyfriend?
#11
Swanny Wrote:Any pointers on how to get a boyfriend and keep one?

#1 rule for dating probably no one else will ever tell you......

Remember everything you say about everyone else is a reflection of who you are. It tells your story...not theirs.
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#12
East Wrote:#1 rule for dating probably no one else will ever tell you......

Remember everything you say about everyone else is a reflection of who you are. It tells your story...not theirs.

I contest this!

I recently quit my job very dramatically because my boss was a cruel bitch.

I, sir... am no bitch.
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#13
Wade Wrote:I contest this!

I recently quit my job very dramatically because my boss was a cruel bitch.

I, sir... am no bitch.

It is still a reflection of who you are because how you view her speaks about who you are....not much about her

There are always 1000+ different ways to look at just about anything....some are far more interesting and intriguing than others.....

Some might even engage the listenerWink
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#14
Take your time in looking for one, things like this take time if you want it to last a while. Whenever I hook up with a guy ( which doesn't happen often), I'm never looking for it, it just happens out of the blue. Whenever I do go hunting for one, I usually end up disappointed. Just go with the flow.
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#15
Posted by Bowyn Aerrow:

"I've been putting milkshakes out in my yard, I understand it brings boys to the yard...."

Could they be strawberry...? Confusedmiley-drinking-bee
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#16
Adam Wrote:Posted by Bowyn Aerrow:

"I've been putting milkshakes out in my yard, I understand it brings boys to the yard...."

Could they be strawberry...? Confusedmiley-drinking-bee
It doesnt work...
They won't come. .. you''ll end up drinking the shakes and gain 20+ pounds like I did...
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#17
East Wrote:#1 rule for dating probably no one else will ever tell you......

Remember everything you say about everyone else is a reflection of who you are. It tells your story...not theirs.

Many use similar sentiments without knowing what it means.

You need to love yourself before loving someone else. To me, that means embracing who and what you are - including all your warts. I am my own best friend and I love myself. I have told others that what I seek in someone else is what I see inside myself.

Because I have positioned myself to be unique and amongst the Colourful 5%, I have significantly reduced the available dating gene pool. I would rather be alone (but I am never lonely) than to have someone who does not meet my my high ideals.

Check various dating websites and see if you can find someone. If you are looking for a snuggle buddy, the hook-up sites may have what you desire.
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#18
Anocxu Wrote:It doesnt work...
They won't come. .. you''ll end up drinking the shakes and gain 20+ pounds like I did...

No --- see, what I was trying to find out was if HE would put out strawberry shakes so I could book my flight.

What can I say, I'm easy lol...
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#19
Uneunsae Wrote:I'm also extremely lonely. Sad
If that avatar is u I don't understand how you can be lonely... Alex has cousins who'd loved to meet you LOL. And yes in Alex family, they are all fucking beautiful LOL
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#20
Based on my observations with other people, it's never really a good idea to desperately search for a boyfriend. Try to come to peace with single life; your needs, who you are and what you want from a relationship. Only then should you consider a partner. The "I need a boyfriend asap!" mentality usually brings about very dysfunctional and sometimes even destructive relationships.

Once you're ready you can choose any platform you're comfortable with. LGBT youth groups, internet dating, gay bars/clubs etc.
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