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Ex announced his engagement - more of a vent than request for advice
#1
this isn't really anything I need advice with as such.

But basically a guy I sort of dated for a while (years ago admittedly) just announced his engagement to his bf (the guy who he dumped me for).

to be fair it has been YEARS since we were together and we are *more or less* friends, but I would say that it's never quite been 100% normal since we split. and whilst his fiancé is a lovely guy, I will confess that I have never felt 100% comfortable in his presence.

Anyway, I don't really need advice, I know I'll be okay once I get used to this idea and I daresay that (VERY eventually) I'll go to the wedding and be perfectly friendly and lovely to everyone. But right now it's a bit of a stick in my throat (where's the f*cking chocolate?).

oh yes, not helped by the fact that the ex is also a (new) colleague....
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#2
I feel it, they may try to shatter your morale only by your presence at the wedding if not more. Stay strong. A new colleague ? I guess with time you'll get used to it.
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