Anonymous Wrote:the guys I like are either straight, taken or not interested because they have their eyes on someone better, or they're just not emotionally available. .
And the common denominator here is????
They are unavailable. When you meet them something about their being outside of their grasp appeals to you.
Some common reasons (may or may not apply with you, and are not the only reasons):
You have commitment issues. Thus you purposefully focus on those guys you will not have to actually commit to.
You're love a challenge: In this case the work of getting them to find you appealing appeals to you.
The other aspect is just surrounds
wanting what you can't have.
Again there are more potential reasons why you are attracted to guys you can't have.... You will need to Google it and research it.
As long as you are going to focus your attention on those you can't get, you are going to miss seeing those you can have, more often than not even end up dismissing them out of turn to go seek someone who is distance, unavailable, what ever.
Why are you like this? I have no idea. There is most likely situational/experiences in your past that has programmed you to seek out that which you can't have.
If you can uncover that, or figure that out and actually face that, you might find that your interest in those men you can't have will diminish.
If its commitment issues
https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=commitment+issues
Again, you need to start researching. It threw a few potentials out there for you start start there as these are the more common reasons why people have strong attraction to unavailable people.