Is there a way to make my boyfriend more sensitive

[LJay]

Foreplay and affection. A kiss in the morning, planted on the back of neck while he is drying off. A hug here and there. No demand hand holding while you are watching TV. Just cuddling. No pressure. Let him know you care but don't expect a high performance episode at the drop of a hat. Security is a good thing.

[Sil]

I don't know what I can add that hasn't been mentioned here already...

my favourite reply is someone mentioned making it a game - tell him you want to be the one to make him cum, and see how long he can go without so he can shoot a mega load for you. Everyone has their own way of getting off, but it's not always the easiest thing to describe. Let him get himself 90% of the way there and then finish him off yourself; he'll soon learn how nice having someone else getting you off is.

[TwistedxD]

We have been trying a lot of this actually its now getting to the point he needs porn to get off unless we are havin sex :/ I honestly feel like a failure

[Bowyn Aerrow]

If all of the physical stuff is failing then its in his head.

That cannot be addressed via you, that he will have to make his own membership and ask us and we can talk to him - maybe PM's to get an idea as no doubt he ain't gonna wanna talk publicly about this little issue.

Or he can find a therapist. He need to talk this out with a third party who won't come off as judgmental about his manhood.