First Contact ( not Star Trek )
10-27-2014, 05:01 PM
So last night was club night. It went much better than expected. Things seem to be rapidly moving in a good direction....
I got to the club early to help set up for the Halloween party. This was the first time I saw my bondage buddy since I proposed a more sexual encounter with him and our kissing.
I knew that night that the wheels were turning in his mind. I was unsure where things would go. We would either move forward he would decide that maybe doing so wasn't the best idea.
After we said hello when I arrived, I hung with another guy at the place helping him set up. I wanted to give my friend some space and didn't want to seem like I was pressuring him in any way.
A lot more people were there than usual and there was less play then the typical night.
Eventually we grabbed a drink and had a smoke. I had no intention of asking him about the specifics of our previous conversation. I did ask him if he told the others and their reaction. He said he did and they thought it was cute. He also said they were joking that we had a crush on each other...and we both agreed it was accurate.
We talked for quite a while. Very directly and honestly. He was a bit concerned about the possibility of emotional attachment I may have towards him and didn't want to lead me on in any way.
we talked at length about this kind of thing and exactly where we stood and what it all meant. The conversation was so long and involved it would be difficult for me to discuss it all.
The conclusion was that we're friends, we attracted to each other, and we could have a sexual type relationship and enjoy it without going anyplace.
This is what I wanted and it seems like he's on the same page. We communicate really well. I think this is important. As long as we are open and honest the chances of things going in a negative direction seem less likely.
He knows all of this is new to me and he's understanding. I told him I wasn't exactly sure how to walk this line and I know he'll be helpful in this regard.
To make a long story short....we'll be hanging out Friday. I'm pretty damn excited!
I got to the club early to help set up for the Halloween party. This was the first time I saw my bondage buddy since I proposed a more sexual encounter with him and our kissing.
I knew that night that the wheels were turning in his mind. I was unsure where things would go. We would either move forward he would decide that maybe doing so wasn't the best idea.
After we said hello when I arrived, I hung with another guy at the place helping him set up. I wanted to give my friend some space and didn't want to seem like I was pressuring him in any way.
A lot more people were there than usual and there was less play then the typical night.
Eventually we grabbed a drink and had a smoke. I had no intention of asking him about the specifics of our previous conversation. I did ask him if he told the others and their reaction. He said he did and they thought it was cute. He also said they were joking that we had a crush on each other...and we both agreed it was accurate.
We talked for quite a while. Very directly and honestly. He was a bit concerned about the possibility of emotional attachment I may have towards him and didn't want to lead me on in any way.
we talked at length about this kind of thing and exactly where we stood and what it all meant. The conversation was so long and involved it would be difficult for me to discuss it all.
The conclusion was that we're friends, we attracted to each other, and we could have a sexual type relationship and enjoy it without going anyplace.
This is what I wanted and it seems like he's on the same page. We communicate really well. I think this is important. As long as we are open and honest the chances of things going in a negative direction seem less likely.
He knows all of this is new to me and he's understanding. I told him I wasn't exactly sure how to walk this line and I know he'll be helpful in this regard.
To make a long story short....we'll be hanging out Friday. I'm pretty damn excited!
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I'm almost jealous.
