we want a full family

[Bubble]

it is not easy process I should say coz not everywhere it is allowed but there are some clinics which work with gay couples but the prices are rather high...higher than for traditional couples which wish to use services of surrogate mother.

[John1673]

yes...the prices are too high!!
i don't know why but surrogacy for traditional couple costs 2-2,5 times less than surrogacy for the gay one!!!
where is the justice???

[Beaux]

yes...the prices are too high!!
i don't know why but surrogacy for traditional couple costs 2-2,5 times less than surrogacy for the gay one!!!
where is the justice???

Then you are dealing with the wrong agencies. My husband and I have investigated 3 clinics and all pricing is per service, and prices are the same for everyone.
~Beaux

[Jake]

Hallo to all of you guys!!!
How are you?
My name is John and I’m from Belgium!
Me and my partner are together for already 5 years! We are ready to go further!
We would like to complete our family…we lack a child…but want to become the best daddies in the world..How do you think how can we complete our family and make it full???

Best daddies in the world? Sorry this was already taken by me and Alex, better luck next time? Hahaha. Again, why are you guys coming here asking for this? John, if you want to know how to get children why don't you perform a proper research on the Internet, call some gay parent association in Belgium, talk to adoption agencies. Do something! If you and your partner believe that you're ready for a human addition to your couple, well move it.

[John1673]

Then you are dealing with the wrong agencies. My husband and I have investigated 3 clinics and all pricing is per service, and prices are the same for everyone.
~Beaux

Don'tknow but consulted several of them and faced with this...

[John1673]

Best daddies in the world? Sorry this was already taken by me and Alex, better luck next time? Hahaha. Again, why are you guys coming here asking for this? John, if you want to know how to get children why don't you perform a proper research on the Internet, call some gay parent association in Belgium, talk to adoption agencies. Do something! If you and your partner believe that you're ready for a human addition to your couple, well move it.

i'm trying here to find some advice, to ask someone who went through it!
i'm not sitting on the sofa waiting for a child, no...i consult with the specialists and different clinics about surrogacy...

[Bubble]

think it is ok when people ask on the forums questions like this. When people ask some questions it means that they need support and advice.

[Jake]

think it is ok when people ask on the forums questions like this. When people ask some questions it means that they need support and advice.

If I want to buy a car I go to a car dealer, if I want to adopt, surrogacy, insemination and or get the proper information for having a child (and I'm darn serious about it) I go straight where the right information is. Therefore, not a general topic forum. The matter that it as "gay" and "speak" doesn't make this forum a suitable place to discuss the adventure of having a child. A forum like this one or any gay forums of general discussion would be the last place I'd look for advices on becoming parents, no offense to GS and its members, but a dream is a dream until the first real action have been made to become parents and that starts by doing research, assessing your capacity to become the best daddies in the world. Taking that your children won't be a born asshole. Sometimes it doesn't matter how good parents you are, a child can be rotten all by him/herself no matter the excellent social values one has provided them with.

To the op... go there if you haven't already

The International Lesbian and Gay Association
ILGA Administrative Office
81 Kolenmarkt
B 1000, Brussels, Belgium
+32-2-5022471
E-mail: [email protected]
Web site: http://www.ilga.org

[John1673]

i think i have the right to discuss my qustion here.
People discuss different questions on the forums and seak for advice. why they can discuss herpes here and not go straight to the doctor or drug store and buy some medicine to treat it?
from your point of view there is no need in forums at all!

[Adam]

Hello, John. I'm in the same boat. I live together with my partner 6 years already, and we want to make our family and our life complete. We want to have kids. But people around us only blame us and call us stupid. It makes our way to dream much harder. But I think, that everything is possible, if you listen to your heart and follow your dream